Social skills are the ultimate pussy magnet. An ugly manlet will never lack for female company as long as he's got game. That's what incels don't understand. Their entitlement and bitterness put women off more than their looks ever will. Look at freaks like Elliot Rodger.
This is a cope. Unless you have actual medically diagnosed autism, it's within your power to improve your social skills. Put your ego aside and try to evaluate the way you behave around other people, try to improve a little bit every day.
Start by getting rid of awkward or erratic mannerisms. All it really comes down to is avoiding behaviors that put other off, rather than doing anything special to attract them. I recommend the book "Emotional Intelligence" by Daniel Goleman as a good starting point.
Yeah but they are retarded autismospergs. Don't worry about scandis. They are babe in the woods naive and get ruthlessly scammed sbd exploited wherever they go without fail. It's actually sad.
Having good social skills doesn't mean being a tryhard and always making jokes to try to impress a woman. Are you really that divorced from reality that you can't see that? Touch grass.
Looks > social skills
If you go to a club and look good chicks will come up and dance with you
>If you go to a club and look good chicks will come up and dance with you
Clubs and Tinder are artificial environments. The vast majority of men get with women outside of them.
A 45 year old guy with game might be able to get with young women no problem, but he would obviously struggle at a club (unless he flexes his wealth buying expensive shit).
If you have prolonged, regular contact with women like in a friend group or a workplace, and your social skills are good enough, you will probably succeed in getting in the pants of one or more of them.
Looks help, but they're not the trump card incel culture makes them out to be. I've seen old, broke, fat guys get with women in their 20's just because they have game. Not the cringy PUA shit you find on the internet, actual charisma, emotional intelligence, and social skills.
Sounds like you gays are just coming up with excuses not to better yourselves. It's easier to give up and to blame others than to do the work.
Yeah this thread isn't for long term chatting with chicken retard it's for partu hostels we're sweet 18-22 year Olds are looking for hot exotic men to pipe them and party
I'm a manlet, but I've piped girls from hostels just cause I've got the gift of the gab. If you won't follow my advice, it's your loss. Continue to feel sorry for yourselves. It's all the same to me.
I'm a manlet, but I've piped girls from hostels just cause I've got the gift of the gab. If you won't follow my advice, it's your loss. Continue to feel sorry for yourselves. It's all the same to me.
Ok I'll bite. How do I get better at actual charisma? What real life steps can I take to get better? How do girls like to be talked to so that they let me have sex with them?
I'm in my late 20's now. I've gone from having terrible social skills to having decent ones. It's made a big difference in my life.
>How do girls like to be talked to so that they let me have sex with them?
That's a question I'm still trying to find the answer to myself. I won't pretend to be some gigachad or to have all the answers. If I did, that knowledge would be priceless and I could make a fortune from selling it.
Ultimately, getting better with women and with people in general is about developing self-awareness and constantly reevaluating the way you communicate with others. If I were in a room with you and we had a conversation, I could probably identify the things you do that put others off, if any. Most people have things they do that if they stopped doing, people would like them better.
For example, many guys have awkward mannerisms and gestures that they think make them quirky. Those are only charming in women, if you have them you need to do your best to unlearn those habits. Other guys try too hard to be funny or cool or tough. If that's you, you need to knock it off. Others are rude to other people, sometimes unintentionally. It's important to make everyone you speak to feel respected and heard, whether you're trying to sleep with them or not. Do you see what I mean?
Basically you have to do your best to become a humble and chill guy that other people enjoy spending time with. And try to develop emotional intelligence. Human beings and their perceptions of others are more affected by irrational factors than rational ones, aka the words that come out of your mouth. You could say all the right things, but if you say them the wrong way, if your voice is too gayy or if your gestures and facial expressions are weird, other people will not like you, especially women.
I highly recommend the book "Emotional Intelligence" by Daniel Goleman, who is a Harvard-trained PhD in psychology and much smarter than I am.
You will never be a woman
Social skills are the ultimate pussy magnet. An ugly manlet will never lack for female company as long as he's got game. That's what incels don't understand. Their entitlement and bitterness put women off more than their looks ever will. Look at freaks like Elliot Rodger.
So what. Charisma isn't much more fixable than appearance is.
t. autistic scandi chad
This is a cope. Unless you have actual medically diagnosed autism, it's within your power to improve your social skills. Put your ego aside and try to evaluate the way you behave around other people, try to improve a little bit every day.
Start by getting rid of awkward or erratic mannerisms. All it really comes down to is avoiding behaviors that put other off, rather than doing anything special to attract them. I recommend the book "Emotional Intelligence" by Daniel Goleman as a good starting point.
>t. autistic scandi chad
Yeah but they are retarded autismospergs. Don't worry about scandis. They are babe in the woods naive and get ruthlessly scammed sbd exploited wherever they go without fail. It's actually sad.
>just jestermaxx bro
No. Lol.
Having good social skills doesn't mean being a tryhard and always making jokes to try to impress a woman. Are you really that divorced from reality that you can't see that? Touch grass.
>If you go to a club and look good chicks will come up and dance with you
Clubs and Tinder are artificial environments. The vast majority of men get with women outside of them.
A 45 year old guy with game might be able to get with young women no problem, but he would obviously struggle at a club (unless he flexes his wealth buying expensive shit).
If you have prolonged, regular contact with women like in a friend group or a workplace, and your social skills are good enough, you will probably succeed in getting in the pants of one or more of them.
Looks help, but they're not the trump card incel culture makes them out to be. I've seen old, broke, fat guys get with women in their 20's just because they have game. Not the cringy PUA shit you find on the internet, actual charisma, emotional intelligence, and social skills.
Sounds like you gays are just coming up with excuses not to better yourselves. It's easier to give up and to blame others than to do the work.
Yeah this thread isn't for long term chatting with chicken retard it's for partu hostels we're sweet 18-22 year Olds are looking for hot exotic men to pipe them and party
I'm a manlet, but I've piped girls from hostels just cause I've got the gift of the gab. If you won't follow my advice, it's your loss. Continue to feel sorry for yourselves. It's all the same to me.
Ok I'll bite. How do I get better at actual charisma? What real life steps can I take to get better? How do girls like to be talked to so that they let me have sex with them?
I'm in my late 20's now. I've gone from having terrible social skills to having decent ones. It's made a big difference in my life.
>How do girls like to be talked to so that they let me have sex with them?
That's a question I'm still trying to find the answer to myself. I won't pretend to be some gigachad or to have all the answers. If I did, that knowledge would be priceless and I could make a fortune from selling it.
Ultimately, getting better with women and with people in general is about developing self-awareness and constantly reevaluating the way you communicate with others. If I were in a room with you and we had a conversation, I could probably identify the things you do that put others off, if any. Most people have things they do that if they stopped doing, people would like them better.
For example, many guys have awkward mannerisms and gestures that they think make them quirky. Those are only charming in women, if you have them you need to do your best to unlearn those habits. Other guys try too hard to be funny or cool or tough. If that's you, you need to knock it off. Others are rude to other people, sometimes unintentionally. It's important to make everyone you speak to feel respected and heard, whether you're trying to sleep with them or not. Do you see what I mean?
Basically you have to do your best to become a humble and chill guy that other people enjoy spending time with. And try to develop emotional intelligence. Human beings and their perceptions of others are more affected by irrational factors than rational ones, aka the words that come out of your mouth. You could say all the right things, but if you say them the wrong way, if your voice is too gayy or if your gestures and facial expressions are weird, other people will not like you, especially women.
I highly recommend the book "Emotional Intelligence" by Daniel Goleman, who is a Harvard-trained PhD in psychology and much smarter than I am.
Looks > social skills
If you go to a club and look good chicks will come up and dance with you
>clubs are the only place to meet women
Painfully obvious incel that has never left his house
I'm looking to cremepie drunk teenagers not form a relationship
>Incel thread
Yes this happened to my nerdy ass but with long hair surfer/stoner auschads
I never stood a chance, and haven't stayed in a hostel since