Losers of?

This is a question for the losers of SighSee only:

When you travelled abroad, did you still feel like a loser, or were things better for you? For example, staying at nicer places, eating better food, being successful with women, etc.

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I travel for me, not to be perceived as a chad by others.
    Get out of your head, dude.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It just feels nice to get a break from work. I travel with my wife so I'm not lusting after women or partying. It's nice being able to go to places like Brazil and every uber is $2-5 even if it's an hour ride

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why do you consider yourself to be a loser then?

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Problems follow you wherever you go.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    A rollercoaster,
    First day or two you enjoy yourself.
    Then your nihilism kicks back in, you thought traveling will make you forget your nihilistic thoughts, you realize it doesn't, you enter a phase of travel depression.
    Then you accept it and you somehow become happy again with what you have.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Where was the last place you travelled to and what did you do?

      https://i.imgur.com/LMrDnaW.jpg

      Will I meet cool people with whom I'll exactly vibe with and they'll exactly understand me and I'll just be myself and have a great time? This will happen right?

      I'm a shut-in NEET but I have gone out a few times and have gotten along with a few people I've met at bars. I always thought I would only get along with someone like me, but I was wrong. I haven't travelled abroad yet, but when I do, I'm confident I'll meet some interesting people that I'll get along with. It will happen as long as you put yourself in a situation where people talk to strangers, e.g. at a bar, and you're willing to talk to people. Being drunk made it easy for me to be outgoing so it feels good knowing that if I have a few drinks I'll say whatever I feel like.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        England, Scotland, Ireland, France and Spain (Camino Frances).

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you have to be total b***h and a coward to try to escape thoughts of inevitable decay instead of meeting them head on and fully accepting them, like a man

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's not decay that haunts me, it's the meaningless of it all and the pains and ignorance of the people.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Will I meet cool people with whom I'll exactly vibe with and they'll exactly understand me and I'll just be myself and have a great time? This will happen right?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You will meet exactly zero people unless you stay in a hostel or have really good photos for dating apps.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Meeting people is easy, but friendships can’t be easily made in a state of transience. I met tourists and locals, but I only really “vibed” with a 2 or 3.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >UUUUUUUUHUHUH I'm such a LOOOSER
    >everybody thinks I'm so fricking pathetic
    literally all you have to do is stop thinking about it, and say "I am a winner" in your head (and force yourself to believe it) as soon as you wake up or when you approach a social situation that you think is daunting

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      but don't do this too much and become a narcissist because no one likes those either

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Women love narcissist men

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Women love narcissist men

        Women lust after narcissistic men, they don’t love them. They do however love egocentric men.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hey man, I just wanted to ask people who consider themselves to be losers about their travel experiences. If you want to give advice, go to

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  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    For me no, but it made me feel better when I went back home. Most people think solo travel is cool/brave in some way. Also I like being alone so you might as well be exploring somewhere new when alone

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I just had a 12 hour flight, next to me was a cute and gorgeous girl, she was smiling at me several times but I was too afraid to say even helo. Does this answer your question?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Next time drink some alcohol. After a few drinks you would have said hello and a lot more and would have had a great time (or potentially the worst time of your life).

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wouldn't say I'm a loser but I'm definitely a more outgoing and confident version of myself when I'm overseas. I'm not sure why exactly, I don't lie about who I am, my job or anything like that. I wish I could tap into that confidence when I'm at home but it seems to just fade away.

    Don't travel with expectations that you're going to reinvent yourself or pretend to be someone you aren't but travelling can definitely help you get out of your bubble, imo.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do you lie to people at home?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        anon don't be rude, he just said he is more confident

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You need to learn the difference between asking a question and making an accusation.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        No, I don't lie to people at home or abroad. I just said I was more outgoing and confident when I travel.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I think a big part of it is that you aren’t inhibited by having thoughts about your reputation being damaged. People also assume you are interesting and the language barrier can keep them from realizing that you’re not. The language barrier also helps to obscure your autism.

      Traveling to third world countries also implicitly means that to them, you’re rich. Most people in third world countries never leave them.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >People also assume you are interesting and the language barrier can keep them from realizing that you’re not. The language barrier also helps to obscure your autism.
        Holy shit is this ever true

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you go to party hostels or group tours with young people there's actually a way higher chad and stacy ratio than in real world.
    I'm usually confident at home and have no issue with girls, friends, etc, but when doing this shit and everyone is outgoing and partying I felt like a loser.

    When it comes to women, except if you're white and go in one of the few rare places where you still have an advantage (India, China, Africa) you'll be even more ignored. How do you plan flirting with a german chick if you can't do it in your mother tongue ?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >everyone is outgoing and partying
      They're the losers. All my life I used to think people who went to festivals and raves were cool, and that standing with a bunch of people and jumping up and down and screaming was the epitome of cool, until I tried it and realised these people are actually lame as hell and have nothing interesting going on in their lives.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        LOL, what exactly would you consider interesting? A guided museum tour?

        https://i.imgur.com/xIZWOB8.jpg

        This is a question for the losers of SighSee only:

        When you travelled abroad, did you still feel like a loser, or were things better for you? For example, staying at nicer places, eating better food, being successful with women, etc.

        Hey man, I just wanted to ask people who consider themselves to be losers about their travel experiences. If you want to give advice, go to [...]

        Compared to vandwelling in America, I am living a far more civilized life in Southeast Asia. Yet habits of solitude and simple living persist after so many years alone on the road. I neither lose nor win; I merely live cheap, comfy and alone.

        https://i.imgur.com/LMrDnaW.jpg

        Will I meet cool people with whom I'll exactly vibe with and they'll exactly understand me and I'll just be myself and have a great time? This will happen right?

        You really never know who you will meet and who you will vibe with. Keep an open mind, and engage with anyone who seems interested in engaging with you.

        I just had a 12 hour flight, next to me was a cute and gorgeous girl, she was smiling at me several times but I was too afraid to say even helo. Does this answer your question?

        The more you socialize, the better you will get at meeting people, including cute girls.

        You will meet exactly zero people unless you stay in a hostel or have really good photos for dating apps.

        Hostel socializing is primarily for people interested in meeting other travelers. Oldgays are not very social at hostels, and weirdos have a tough time fitting in with the normie friend groups. Tinder, whatever. bawdmaxxing is overrated.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >LOL, what exactly would you consider interesting? A guided museum tour?
          nta but you actually do sound like a boring dude

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      MORE ignored? Thats the opposite of what happened to me. The german girls went to lengths to talk to me and were actually more interested. I got invited to a girls house too with her friends in germany. But in america people are really nasty to me. Americans just hate me.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a loser by most standards but at least I'm married and earned a chunk from crypto so I don't work. The fact that I'm not working but traveling does make my insecurities relatively vanish. I can go to 'local' or luxury areas and enjoy both knowing I don't need to feel like I must enjoy it. I see dudes on ig grinding everything in life, work hard party hard mentality, desperately striving to make it all seem worthwhile. Eh frick that. I do nothing but I'm living easier than they are. People can look down on me all they want, but they're only trying to convince themselves.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you sound like an butthole so I'm not surprised people look down on you

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Because I feel bad for tryhards?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >wins the lottery
          >refers to people who work as tryhards

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, but it really made my feel like my country men are losers (Canadians).

    >Shitty places here
    >Expensive yet shitty tasting food
    >Canadians are terrible at flirting

    So yeah OP. Definitely felt like a loser.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Canadian men are like that because women here are completely frigid. We are conditioned to believe that they never want anyone to talk to them. Autistic women seem to gravitate to Vancouver and Toronto especially, and that seems to drive a lot of it.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It varied massively. Sometimes I felt like a chad, hitting on women without fear (although I never got laid, I did get some dates). Sometimes I had a great time just hanging out with locals and other tourists. Other times I felt like a massive loser, alone in a crowd watching everyone else have fun, and being unable to communicate.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I felt like a celebrity when I was younger. Being stopped for pictures etc. it’s surreal.

    In my 30’s, I just felt more relaxed and less inhibited. The longest I’ve travelled consecutively is a year, and this feeling was fairly constant.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Wherever you go, there you'll be.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I went abroad for the first time in my life last year.
    I was there for work. I didn't even leave my apartment. I lived my life exactly like I live it at home. I just stayed in my apartment playing video games all day.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't care about women or sex as I am aro/ace

    But Japan is the only place where I am successful socially, having he icebreaker of being a foreigner who speaks their language fluently has opened up a lot of doors and friendships that I can't even dream of being able to achieve at home
    For example I make friends with an owner of a bar, then after a few visits he offers to drive me around to some hard to reach tourist destinations with a couple of his friends and we have an awesome time together

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my year abroad was the best time of my life and i like to use it as motivation to keep on going.

    its a reminder of how good life could be. i make more money than ever now and squirrel it all away to do it again some day

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My first travels solo I felt like an utter loser and was very aware of it. It got better later

    Traveling doesnt transform you in charisma man all of a sudden, you need to improve on your social skills on your normal life. That being said, once I was able to leave the robot life a little, traveling multiplied my success with women by 10.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah it worked out for me but I’m reasonably tall (5’11) and white. It was nice living on my own but I was still depressed and having sex didn’t really make me feel any better. I met my girlfriend there, though, and having emotional intimacy with someone has really helped. It took well over a year for me to feel like I had grown beyond being a loser, though. I would definitely recommend traveling if you can afford it. You can flirt and make out with the girls, but I wouldn’t recommend losing your virginity to someone you aren’t at least somewhat intimate with. I slept with the first beautiful woman who was willing and she got mad at me after for not knowing what I was doing and then left. Be careful in South America, robberies are common. Always vet girls online via socials, I started meeting the ones I wanted to meet probably about 3 to 6 months before I went. Practice the language if you can, it helps a lot.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’ll always have the shame and insecurity from my social defeats but it’s way easier to nurse these pathological scars with tangy thai pussies abroad.

    Being a loser is just part of my identity. Im more of a failed Normie tho. There’s people that are true blue losers out there. I work with some. Single dads on child support who live paycheck to paycheck

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i like these stories

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Well I had a great time traveling and people abroad tend to be a lot nicer than americans, but the americans I knew back home became irate that I was traveling. They threatened me with filing fake police reports trying to get me to not go travel again.

    Did I get laid abroad? I actually did. Women abroad are just nicer and easier to deale with than american women. And if they reject you they dont go berserk and turn it into WWIII like americans do.

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