By party cities you mean cities that are good for hedonistic drug addicts and alcoholics and that cater to their low class debauched lifestyle? Have you heard of Kensington Avenue in Philadelphia? You can party with the meth and oxy heads:
>By party cities you mean cities that are good for hedonistic drug addicts and alcoholics and that cater to their low class debauched lifestyle?
no I mean cities that cater to the socialization of 20s year olds. A city where I can meet new friends and talk to attractive girls.
I don't know if you know how the world works, but:
If you can't meet young women and socialize easy where you live you are not going to go abroad and become a casanova. But you can maybe go to some third world poor country where they have a self colonized mentality and it seems Filipino will be interested in Western losers because they are still rich by Filipino standards and the woman want white babies so their kids have a higher social status.
COPE
American women are the worst by 20+ orders of magnitude. I dated in the US growing up but once I moved to Germany, it was like a breath of fresh air.
So you think guys who can't pull women in the country where are from and where they best understand the social norms because of their bad looks, low social status, timidity, etc. are going to go abroad and suddenly have women jumping on their dick?
That's not how the world works. There are some mitigating factors like the desperate poverty of some countries, the self ingrained racial inferiority of certain other countries. But in general if you can't pull women in your homeland or easily make friends it is not easier abroad. It is easier sometimes at some more social hostels to make friends, but you could visit a more group oriented hostel in your own country and get that same experience. Generally Western countries have the most loose women and most chankids are Westerners. So if you can't pull at home, you won't abroad. It's probably better to just face that and pay to coom.
homie, the huge boon a guy of any quality has is the sheer number of acceptable girls WALKING around everywhere in these countries. The discoverability off of dating apps (IRL) is off the charts.
You can just walk around and daygame like crazy, go to events where there's actually a decent ratio. and not just of men to women, but men to slim women.
USA would be more appealing with a higher concentration of attractive women, but go to an event in PNW and it's 3-4 dudes trying with a single 7 because everyone is desperate
This is exactly how the world works. I took my virgin best friend to South America and he somehow ended up having sex with some local girl. Most of the western world is fricked if you don't want to be subjected to women.
yeah I guess it's just the nature of the chans that attract these types of people but it's so annoying when they come out of the woodworks. It was an innocuous thread about what cities had the best nightlives and this fricking dork starts sperging with his blackpilled doomer shit. They need to just frick off back to /LULZ/.
I got bored of that shit freshman year. Admittedly I was a loser until I got my shit together the last bit of high school, or I might have been over it by 16.
Same bullshit, same empty conversations, same b***hes that have been getting ran through since her breasts first sprouted.
So I got into lots of drugs because the alcohol and pot was boring. The drugs were interesting but the people were a mixed bag. Then I gave it up because of a psychotic event. I dont miss it.
Im getting to late 20s and not mid 20s anymore now, and appreciate normal people more now. Doesnt seem possible in america but I just want a normal girl to settle down with. I think I wanted this back before I started doing every different kind of drug and bullshit rave I could find, but didnt think it was possible in the back of my mind.
I dont know where I'm going with this, except to say I cannot relate to people who dont get bored of "party" shortly after teenage years.
>tips on attending raves
Ive been to so many in every weird ass environment on every type of drug including nice RCs they dont make anymore, and not a single one do I look back on and say I'm glad I did this.
Maybe thats me, maybe drugs and parties are just naturally hollow experiences.
So literally any it doesnt matter, or it does matter and you shouldnt take my advice because I am not actually the lifestyle enjooyer I pretended to myself and people around me I was.
I suggest instead finding friends you trust with your life and smoking pot and playing vidya instead. I cherish those memories more, still talk to those friends. They didnt turn into total drone npcs or die from fent.
10 months ago
Anonymous
>I suggest instead finding friends you trust with your life
yeah you don't have to tell me. It's easier said than done. If I had 1-3 friends I'd literally die for I'd be happy. Hard to find outside maybe warzones though. >and smoking pot and playing vidya instead
don't like pot and can't muster up enough interest to play vidya more than half an hr now. I wish I could just sink hours into vidya like when I was 17. I think I was far more at peace back then but I guess I'm just stricken by nostalgia.
But yeah I get your overall point spend time with true friends instead of hollow people who don't care about you and are only talking to you because they're high on drugs. I think I just have a high degree for novelty though, raves seem like something I'd want to experience at least once.
> If you can't meet young women and socialize easy where you live you are not going to go abroad and become a casanova.
False. This is exactly what I did. YVR>BOG. If I hadn’t met my girlfriend while I was traveling I would have drowned in all the women down there. Lost my virginity in a week.
Dudes who can't get laid cope by adopting this attitude
A lot of cities in the US with a large college have an insane party scene. I had a freind who went to the University of Miami and her college photos are fricking insane. I went to a pretty large University in Maryland. There was always endless supply of booze and b***hes every weekend.
I got bored of that shit freshman year. Admittedly I was a loser until I got my shit together the last bit of high school, or I might have been over it by 16.
Same bullshit, same empty conversations, same b***hes that have been getting ran through since her breasts first sprouted.
So I got into lots of drugs because the alcohol and pot was boring. The drugs were interesting but the people were a mixed bag. Then I gave it up because of a psychotic event. I dont miss it.
Im getting to late 20s and not mid 20s anymore now, and appreciate normal people more now. Doesnt seem possible in america but I just want a normal girl to settle down with. I think I wanted this back before I started doing every different kind of drug and bullshit rave I could find, but didnt think it was possible in the back of my mind.
I dont know where I'm going with this, except to say I cannot relate to people who dont get bored of "party" shortly after teenage years.
You are a moron, for one the brief period in life of college for certain people is a frick bonanza but it won't last for various reasons. Outside of a college in the work world or real world you are not segregated by your age cohort, the novelty of being alone as an adult wears off, most people grow out of and get of sick of the drug and alcohol excess that leads to lowered sexual inhibition, etc.
>I had a freind who went to the University of Miami and her college photos are fricking insane.
Yes, if a women wants to be a bawd at a college where many women go to bawd off it is very easy for her to be successful in that. For men unless you are the top percentile of attractiveness you're a creep if you try to adopt some of the tactics of female bawds.
Go back to your PSL forums homosexual, why is it so shocking for autists that people have sex irl who aren't giga chads
What the frick is PSL or a PSL forum you perenially online chankid nerd shutin?
> If you can't meet young women and socialize easy where you live you are not going to go abroad and become a casanova.
False. This is exactly what I did. YVR>BOG. If I hadn’t met my girlfriend while I was traveling I would have drowned in all the women down there. Lost my virginity in a week.
I too wonder what is YVR>BOG and why this perenially online chankid nerd is so lazy or weird to think anyone would know wtf he is referencing.
Vancouver > Bogota I think
Hmm YVR does seem to be the airport code for Vancouver.
yeah I guess it's just the nature of the chans that attract these types of people but it's so annoying when they come out of the woodworks. It was an innocuous thread about what cities had the best nightlives and this fricking dork starts sperging with his blackpilled doomer shit. They need to just frick off back to /LULZ/.
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Got any tips on attending raves?
It is not doomer shit you moron. The average guy if he breaks up with his current women takes a considerable amount of time to find another women to date. Even online dating it takes lots of time and effort and you need to send copious messages to various matches to finally get it to translate into date.
Only for the top percentile of guys in attractiveness, social status or looks is dating easy. Which is why I write that it is stupid to travel somewhere just to date or pickup women. For one, the average man has to grow on women like a mold, and constantly moving from locale to locale to enjoy traveling hinders that.
You have been brainwashed by youtubers. Stop watching Jordan Peterson or god knows whatever youtubers that attracts incels by theorizing men and women relationships.
If you have a personality, you don't have to think like that, as girls with a matching personality will come to you naturally.
You are a moron. The average guy when he breaks up with his current wife, women, even if he recovers mentally will take a long time to find another women and get into a relationship.
This is why I write that it is stupid to try to hook up with women as a tourist. Sure if you all you do is rave around other druggies, you may as well try to peg the absolutely bawd tier women that actually rave. But everyone else there is no point, you will not stay as a tourist long enough in a locale to get a women to lower her inhibitions enough to have sex with you. And there is little point in dating if you are leaving the city or town you are in the next day or so.
If there is a party and there are 10 men and 10 women, the 10 women will want to all frick the 2 most attractive guys. Women are hypergamous. While the average guy will be willing to frick 6-7 of the 10 women in the room. Unless you are one of the top tier guys in the looks department and are like an unfamous Ryan Gosling, it is a waste of time to try to seriously date or ply game while a tourist.
you are hated because you speak the truth. Looks is the most important factor in every social gathering.
10 months ago
Anonymous
These chankid nerds are such idiots and cosplayers. Yes, the average guy can get women, but he has to constantly work at and deal with constant rejection and massive effort just to finally get a single woman to date him.
Even the super social living at the bar, bar-hoppers I know when they break up -- it may take them a week, a month or maybe more to get another girlfriend. So imagine how stupid it is to spend your vacation trying to pick up women or get a girlfriend after your plane lands.
For good looking chads, sure you may as well since your playing the game on easy mode. But for those who aren't as good looking or wealthy you may as well enjoy your vacation and avoid stupid clubs.
Also if you think back to high school, college or your workplace even among fellow males there is a hierarchy based on looks. And very good looking guys who are quite frankly stupid still have way more male friends simply because of their looks. While the bald, ugly men even if they are more interesting struggle simply because of their bad genetic patrimony.
These chankid nerds are such idiots and cosplayers. Yes, the average guy can get women, but he has to constantly work at and deal with constant rejection and massive effort just to finally get a single woman to date him.
Even the super social living at the bar, bar-hoppers I know when they break up -- it may take them a week, a month or maybe more to get another girlfriend. So imagine how stupid it is to spend your vacation trying to pick up women or get a girlfriend after your plane lands.
For good looking chads, sure you may as well since your playing the game on easy mode. But for those who aren't as good looking or wealthy you may as well enjoy your vacation and avoid stupid clubs.
Also if you think back to high school, college or your workplace even among fellow males there is a hierarchy based on looks. And very good looking guys who are quite frankly stupid still have way more male friends simply because of their looks. While the bald, ugly men even if they are more interesting struggle simply because of their bad genetic patrimony.
dude what are you even saying? people aren't trying to date when they travel, they're looking to hook up. that happens all the time
10 months ago
Anonymous
No it doesn’t. For the average guy to use a baseball analogy he probably bats .05 - .10 at best so he needs to hit on like 10-20 women to find one single interested woman. And that woman may just want a date which may not necessarily lead to casual sex. So the actual conversion. Since this is a medium full of autists/shutins I suspect most of you idiots believe at face value the empty boasts of other guys about their success with women. So you chankids think it’s easy and effortless…
Only for chads is hooking up easy. Hookups can happen every night or almost so for Chad thunderwiener. And in many countries there is almost no degenerate Western style hookup culture facilitated by drugs and alcohol at bars, clubs and raves.
10 months ago
Anonymous
>its going to be impossible to get interest from non-western women >theyre totally mennonite-tier tradfus in their home countries but also instantly morph into giga-bawds once they arrive in the west
Care to explain picrel? At most, maybe 40 of them are from the west
10 months ago
Anonymous
I don’t get what that picrel is supposed to mean or signify.
10 months ago
Anonymous
You sound like a virgin incel. Real interactions does not rely purely on looks. In fact, looks are a very secondar factor for people to find a partner (regardless of gender).
Be socially dominant, be interesting, be funny, be in the right mood, be passionate, all of these stuffs will get you laid way more easily than just looking good.
You're a sad person and anons should not be influenced by you.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Lol, said the literal vigin incel chankid. And most importantly an idiot
No looks are literally the most important determinant. You can look like Henry Cavill and be broke and have no job and you will likely pull more women than a millionaire average guy. That said a millionaire because of social status will pull more than his non-millionaire younger self. And Henry Cavill being a multi-millionaire, famous and like 8 or 9 on a 10 scale good looking facially plus jacked could literally frick the wives of most of the chankid nerd idiots posts idiocies calling me incel. That is how women are they are hypergamous.
Only people like you who suck with women or are very stupid and believe Hollywood fantasies believe that personality maters. Sure I saw once a ugly fat black comedian do standup once in Charlotte, North Carolina. Despite being ugly and fat, since he has social status and is funny he can likely still pull women, but it is harder for him than if he wasn't fat or ugly.
When I think back to my high school years, there was this guy Jason who was Cuban, tall likely 6'1 or 6'2, very good looking and fairly muscular and about 190-200+ lbs. He was so good looking that you could always here the girls say "omg Jason" and constantly cooing and commenting on his looks and his clothing when he left the room. There was another kid Vinnie who wasn't particularly muscular or tall but he was so cute that girls constantly talked about him. If you think to your past when you went to high school you can likely find equivalent guys in your memories. Those are the type of the guys who can easily slay and if they go on vacation, yeah they may as date and pickup chicks because it is on super easy mode for them.
Conversely there was very ugly fat girl in my high school her name was Shelley. But she was always positive and upbeat despite everyone saying mean stuff about her behind her back and to her face. She literally did nothing wrong in life but be ugly.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Now I will give proof that looks are the most important determinant since idiots like you likely only read video game news most likely...
Okcupid has aggressively done experiments with its features like disabling photos:
>And it wasn’t that “looks weren’t important” to the users who’d chosen to stick around. When the photos were restored at 4PM, 2,200 people were in the middle of conversations that had started “blind”. Those conversations melted away. The goodness was gone, in fact worse than gone. It was like we’d turned on the bright lights at the bar at midnight.
I hear there was a blinded reality show where potential daters had conversation without being able to see each other. And when they saw ugly people they clicked with in conservation the interest stopped...
Okcupid found that personality rating is just another proxy for looks since looks it is the most important social capital for determining attraction:
>Here’s some data I dug up from the backup tapes. Each dot here is a person. The two scores are within a half point of each other for 92% of the sample after just 25 votes (and that percentage approaches 100% as vote totals get higher).
>In short, according to our users, “looks” and “personality” were the same thing, which of course makes perfect sense because, you know, this young female account holder, with a 99th percentile personality
10 months ago
Anonymous
Lol, said the literal vigin incel chankid. And most importantly an idiot
No looks are literally the most important determinant. You can look like Henry Cavill and be broke and have no job and you will likely pull more women than a millionaire average guy. That said a millionaire because of social status will pull more than his non-millionaire younger self. And Henry Cavill being a multi-millionaire, famous and like 8 or 9 on a 10 scale good looking facially plus jacked could literally frick the wives of most of the chankid nerd idiots posts idiocies calling me incel. That is how women are they are hypergamous.
Only people like you who suck with women or are very stupid and believe Hollywood fantasies believe that personality maters. Sure I saw once a ugly fat black comedian do standup once in Charlotte, North Carolina. Despite being ugly and fat, since he has social status and is funny he can likely still pull women, but it is harder for him than if he wasn't fat or ugly.
When I think back to my high school years, there was this guy Jason who was Cuban, tall likely 6'1 or 6'2, very good looking and fairly muscular and about 190-200+ lbs. He was so good looking that you could always here the girls say "omg Jason" and constantly cooing and commenting on his looks and his clothing when he left the room. There was another kid Vinnie who wasn't particularly muscular or tall but he was so cute that girls constantly talked about him. If you think to your past when you went to high school you can likely find equivalent guys in your memories. Those are the type of the guys who can easily slay and if they go on vacation, yeah they may as date and pickup chicks because it is on super easy mode for them.
Conversely there was very ugly fat girl in my high school her name was Shelley. But she was always positive and upbeat despite everyone saying mean stuff about her behind her back and to her face. She literally did nothing wrong in life but be ugly.
Part 3:
And here is another where economic and statistical analysis was applied to online dating:
>A data scientist representing the popular dating app “Hinge” reported on the Gini coefficients he had found in his company’s abundant data, treating “likes” as the equivalent of income. He reported that heterosexual females faced a Gini coefficient of 0.324, while heterosexual males faced a much higher Gini coefficient of 0.542. So neither sex has complete equality: in both cases, there are some “wealthy” people with access to more romantic experiences and some “poor” who have access to few or none. But while the situation for women is something like an economy with some poor, some middle class, and some millionaires, the situation for men is closer to a world with a small number of super-billionaires surrounded by huge masses who possess almost nothing.
>On a list of 149 countries’ Gini indices provided by the CIA World Factbook, this would place the female dating economy as 75th most unequal (average—think Western Europe) and the male dating economy as the 8th most unequal (kleptocracy, apartheid, perpetual civil war—think South Africa).
And here is a good video on lookism and the halo effect:
"Are Incels Right? Evaluating Lookism and the Halo Effect"
The Halo effect is that good looking people are perceived to be cool, be smarter, more desirable, have more social capital even if they do nothing. Literally once I was on a NJ Transit train and fat black women and I found myself inexplicably hating on her and "why did she sit next to me" simply because she drew the shortest straw in the looks department. Conversely had she been good looking I would have been happy for no reason but the fortune that a good looking women sat near me.
10 months ago
Anonymous
I botched the last part: basically a fat black woman sat next to me on a train and I found myself being angry and hating her for sitting next to me for no reason besides that she simply lost the genetic lottery. She did nothing but people perceive those who are extremely ugly very negatively as a corollary to the halo effect that good looking people have.
Further there is even a known physical attractiveness bias in the legal system where good looking defendants get off very often simply because of the social patrimony of their looks and the benefit of the halo effect: >https://www.thelawproject.com.au/insights/attractiveness-bias-in-the-legal-system#yui_3_17_2_1_1596464673834_366:~:text=Physical%20Attractiveness%20had%20a%20significant%20influence,and%20a%20maximum%20increase%20of%20304.88%25.
Now I am not saying average guys don't get women, they do. But it is quite difficult for them and they can't easily do it despite empty guy talk boasting that maintains they easily slay. And even ugly guys eventually on a long enough timeline get women. But absolutely the average guy is not hooking up easily so don't waste your precious vacation trying night after night after night after night.
10 months ago
Anonymous
>be called an incel >"no i'm not an incel I have a proof" >let's see your proof >quote a video called "are incels right ?"
Sure buddy.
Your only examples are about online dating. I agree that looks are very important for online dating, because it is the only factor that you can objectively judge online.
But online dating is not real life dating. This is why I said "go outside" a few posts earlier. In the real world, charisma matters more than looks.
Anyway this mentality is not going to get you anywhere. If you think you can't get laid cause you are ugly (which you probably are), well too bad, it's the only thing you cannot change about you, so good luck being happy with your mentality.
10 months ago
Anonymous
No it doesn't moron. Again think back to when you were in high school. You will likely remember guys like Vinnie and Jason from my school who were so objectively attractive that women kept talking about them and you kept overhearing them talking about them "omg it's Jason".
And I also gave a source about even in the legal system it is known that when the accused are very good looking that they are much, much more likely to get off.
Charisma doesn't matter more than looks. You are a moron that doesn't read, doesn't listen to podcasts, isn't intellectually curious and wastes all your free time in the empty whole of Hollywood escapism, anime and vidya games like most chanarchist losers. So you believe the stupid tropes the churn out and ignore real life data and your lived experience.
Here is another source for your to ignore a 20/20 episode where they paid actors who fairly attractive and very attractive to perform the same scripts and give the same lines and feign that they hard car trouble or that they were job applicants: >ABC 20/20 Special Lookism Part 1 HOW YOUR LOOKS EFFECT EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE
10 months ago
Anonymous
Earlier a guy told you "you have been brainwashed by youtubers", and now your whoe argumentation is relying on youtube videos, bro you just confirm everything that has been said about you.
Also, you don't know me. I don't play video games or watch commercial movies. I live in Paris and spend most of my free time in techno raves, jazz jams and open DJ places. I have seen a lot of people getting wasted, and it's rarely the most good looking guy that gets the girls, it's always the more socially dominant, the leader of the group, or the drug dealer who gets the girls.
10 months ago
Anonymous
The drug dealer gets the girls because she wants free drugs.
I don't hang out with druggie ravers and I hate drug addicts. But I know to tolerate the ultra loud music, the powerful bass, annoying lights plus being around hardcore drug addicts you have to be out of your mind of drugs. I remember the druggie raver girls at my high school in NJ in the late 90's used to wear imitation baby pacifiers around their necks likely to signify that they were wiener guzzling bawds and they actually constantly suck on them in class and in the hallway... If there was no drugs you likely couldn't have raves or the shitty rave culture as Henry Rollins observed:
It could be that ravers are so incapacitated that they can't perceive looks.
But my point still stands that you are a ditsy escapist o be tuned into the real world.
And people who do lots of drugs aren't in their right minds. One of my ex-workers was a hardcore drug addict, heroin or something. He was ugly and he had like 4-5 kids with three different women. But it didn't matter because the only bond heroin addicts need is heroin. The same thing goes with alcoholics or potheads. But few people are so drugged out that looks don't matter.
>I too wonder what is YVR>BOG and why this perenially online chankid nerd is so lazy or weird to think anyone would know wtf he is referencing.
Jesus christ you tard, if you needed help to recognize airport codes you really dont belong on this board
Nerd, I only know the airport codes for airports I frequently fly out of or into to. But of course like an autist you’ll pretend that everyone memorizes every airport code.
Berlin is crazy. Especially the former soviet neighborhood Friedrichschain, you are on another planet.
Paris is not bad too, a lot of mentally ill people come here.
I have been to Bangkok and I don't recommend it to party. It's mainly for moronic tourists to blow their money. You can meet some cute thai girls, but not in the bars. Just hang out in night market, don't drink alcohol and you will socialize easily.
I wish blackpillers would kill themselves and get it over with instead of shitting up everywhere they can with endless rants about why they're balckpilled
You cannot really be that blackpilled about this, if you were you wouldnt bother trying to convince anyone, because it clearly doesn't matter right? Nothing to be done, right? So why say anything.
I wish you stupid escapists would get to the back of the bus and stfu like Rosa Parks should have.
Seriously if you know you spend most your time on video games and Hollywood and that is how your worldview is formed:
Why do you even interject yourself into such issues?
Are you even trying to argue anything? Do you think PERSONALITY matters more than looks like this tard?
You sound like a virgin incel. Real interactions does not rely purely on looks. In fact, looks are a very secondar factor for people to find a partner (regardless of gender).
Be socially dominant, be interesting, be funny, be in the right mood, be passionate, all of these stuffs will get you laid way more easily than just looking good.
You're a sad person and anons should not be influenced by you.
Do you think hooking up is easy for the average guy which is a 5 in the looks scale that it is worth for him to waste his short vacation that may be a week to a month trying to date women at clubs and bars while abroad night after night? Till after maybe a week, two weeks of constant rejection and spending ten hours or more on it he maybe gets one date? Which may or may not lead to sex since women won't easily drop their pants for the average guy?
Not reading all that. Youre a loser, what could I learn from you? How to be a bigger loser?
Either fix your shit or rope, I dont care.
Hopefully you have a drug overdose and you get trampled by shitty ravers all night long and the mortician can't even render your face and body well enough for an open casket funeral.
I have no idea how your Western Europeans and Anglosphere whites have reached the state where not being a drug addict and alcoholic is actually something to make fun of in your sad little worldview... You would figure after raping and looting most the world that you would for the last four hundred years you guys would be happy. But you literally can't cope with reality and have become societies riddled with addicts.
I am obsessed with understanding how the world actually functions.
Idiots like you are obsessed with ignoring how the world functions. Which is why idiots like you escapists of various ilk can only ad-hominen: incel, blackpill, get rope, have a nice day.
Literally research has also shown that objectively attractive people also have higher life time monetary earnings than their non-attractive peers.
Attractive real estate brokers make 12% more: >https://www.businessinsider.com/halo-effect-money-beauty-bias-2014-11
More attractive candidates are more likely to be elected into US Congress: >https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1532673X19875710
Seriously why are you escapists obsessed with being idiots?
Are you trying to argue that personality matters more? Are you trying to argue that average looking guys can easily hookup based on your copious amounts of drug use, vidya gaming and Hollywood consumption wherein you try to escape reality? A 5 scale guy who isn't particularly talent or wealthy can hookup on a long enough timeline, but it isn't easy. Writing incel doesn't alter reality.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Not reading that. Go be an incel somewhere else
10 months ago
Anonymous
Dumb escapist, be like Rosa Parks should have been and get to the back of the bus. Just don't comment unless it is about escapism.
Penticton, BC, Canada
duh, why do you think OP posted a pic of it?
yea if you want to party with morons sure lol
Hope, Northern Idaho
Party it up with OG Aryan Brotherhood
I'd like to ideally party with attractive women in their 20s not undercover informants.
Cour d'alene has babes in the summer
Have you tried Beijing?
There's a big party there.
Paris too.
berlin, bangkok, london
London? I don't know how many times I've been rejected for entry into a nightclub
why?
He's White
He's not a shitskin
sounds like a u problem
London lol, they don't even let you in if you're a white man wearing glasses
I have heard Croatia is quite good for clubbing
Belgrade
Bucharest
Amarillo, Tx and Bishkek if you manage to get invited to the Secret Society of Central Asian Trap Yurt Inhabitants but good luck, anon
Damn, you speak from experience? What am I missing out on?
Vegas
Ibiza, Vegas, Rio, Berlin, Miami, Bangkok, Mykonos, New Orleans, Cancun
By party cities you mean cities that are good for hedonistic drug addicts and alcoholics and that cater to their low class debauched lifestyle? Have you heard of Kensington Avenue in Philadelphia? You can party with the meth and oxy heads:
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i bet you're fun at parties
I don’t like you drug addicts and alcoholics so I don’t like parties. Infact avoiding ill disciplined idiots like you is what I like.
Just because most people suck doesn’t mean I will stoop to their level to bind with them.
>By party cities you mean cities that are good for hedonistic drug addicts and alcoholics and that cater to their low class debauched lifestyle?
no I mean cities that cater to the socialization of 20s year olds. A city where I can meet new friends and talk to attractive girls.
I don't know if you know how the world works, but:
If you can't meet young women and socialize easy where you live you are not going to go abroad and become a casanova. But you can maybe go to some third world poor country where they have a self colonized mentality and it seems Filipino will be interested in Western losers because they are still rich by Filipino standards and the woman want white babies so their kids have a higher social status.
COPE
American women are the worst by 20+ orders of magnitude. I dated in the US growing up but once I moved to Germany, it was like a breath of fresh air.
So you think guys who can't pull women in the country where are from and where they best understand the social norms because of their bad looks, low social status, timidity, etc. are going to go abroad and suddenly have women jumping on their dick?
That's not how the world works. There are some mitigating factors like the desperate poverty of some countries, the self ingrained racial inferiority of certain other countries. But in general if you can't pull women in your homeland or easily make friends it is not easier abroad. It is easier sometimes at some more social hostels to make friends, but you could visit a more group oriented hostel in your own country and get that same experience. Generally Western countries have the most loose women and most chankids are Westerners. So if you can't pull at home, you won't abroad. It's probably better to just face that and pay to coom.
homie, the huge boon a guy of any quality has is the sheer number of acceptable girls WALKING around everywhere in these countries. The discoverability off of dating apps (IRL) is off the charts.
You can just walk around and daygame like crazy, go to events where there's actually a decent ratio. and not just of men to women, but men to slim women.
USA would be more appealing with a higher concentration of attractive women, but go to an event in PNW and it's 3-4 dudes trying with a single 7 because everyone is desperate
This is exactly how the world works. I took my virgin best friend to South America and he somehow ended up having sex with some local girl. Most of the western world is fricked if you don't want to be subjected to women.
Go back to your PSL forums homosexual, why is it so shocking for autists that people have sex irl who aren't giga chads
yeah I guess it's just the nature of the chans that attract these types of people but it's so annoying when they come out of the woodworks. It was an innocuous thread about what cities had the best nightlives and this fricking dork starts sperging with his blackpilled doomer shit. They need to just frick off back to /LULZ/.
Got any tips on attending raves?
>tips on attending raves
Ive been to so many in every weird ass environment on every type of drug including nice RCs they dont make anymore, and not a single one do I look back on and say I'm glad I did this.
Maybe thats me, maybe drugs and parties are just naturally hollow experiences.
So literally any it doesnt matter, or it does matter and you shouldnt take my advice because I am not actually the lifestyle enjooyer I pretended to myself and people around me I was.
I suggest instead finding friends you trust with your life and smoking pot and playing vidya instead. I cherish those memories more, still talk to those friends. They didnt turn into total drone npcs or die from fent.
>I suggest instead finding friends you trust with your life
yeah you don't have to tell me. It's easier said than done. If I had 1-3 friends I'd literally die for I'd be happy. Hard to find outside maybe warzones though.
>and smoking pot and playing vidya instead
don't like pot and can't muster up enough interest to play vidya more than half an hr now. I wish I could just sink hours into vidya like when I was 17. I think I was far more at peace back then but I guess I'm just stricken by nostalgia.
But yeah I get your overall point spend time with true friends instead of hollow people who don't care about you and are only talking to you because they're high on drugs. I think I just have a high degree for novelty though, raves seem like something I'd want to experience at least once.
> If you can't meet young women and socialize easy where you live you are not going to go abroad and become a casanova.
False. This is exactly what I did. YVR>BOG. If I hadn’t met my girlfriend while I was traveling I would have drowned in all the women down there. Lost my virginity in a week.
>YVR>BOG
what's this?
Vancouver > Bogota I think
Dudes who can't get laid cope by adopting this attitude
A lot of cities in the US with a large college have an insane party scene. I had a freind who went to the University of Miami and her college photos are fricking insane. I went to a pretty large University in Maryland. There was always endless supply of booze and b***hes every weekend.
I got bored of that shit freshman year. Admittedly I was a loser until I got my shit together the last bit of high school, or I might have been over it by 16.
Same bullshit, same empty conversations, same b***hes that have been getting ran through since her breasts first sprouted.
So I got into lots of drugs because the alcohol and pot was boring. The drugs were interesting but the people were a mixed bag. Then I gave it up because of a psychotic event. I dont miss it.
Im getting to late 20s and not mid 20s anymore now, and appreciate normal people more now. Doesnt seem possible in america but I just want a normal girl to settle down with. I think I wanted this back before I started doing every different kind of drug and bullshit rave I could find, but didnt think it was possible in the back of my mind.
I dont know where I'm going with this, except to say I cannot relate to people who dont get bored of "party" shortly after teenage years.
You are a moron, for one the brief period in life of college for certain people is a frick bonanza but it won't last for various reasons. Outside of a college in the work world or real world you are not segregated by your age cohort, the novelty of being alone as an adult wears off, most people grow out of and get of sick of the drug and alcohol excess that leads to lowered sexual inhibition, etc.
>I had a freind who went to the University of Miami and her college photos are fricking insane.
Yes, if a women wants to be a bawd at a college where many women go to bawd off it is very easy for her to be successful in that. For men unless you are the top percentile of attractiveness you're a creep if you try to adopt some of the tactics of female bawds.
What the frick is PSL or a PSL forum you perenially online chankid nerd shutin?
I too wonder what is YVR>BOG and why this perenially online chankid nerd is so lazy or weird to think anyone would know wtf he is referencing.
Hmm YVR does seem to be the airport code for Vancouver.
It is not doomer shit you moron. The average guy if he breaks up with his current women takes a considerable amount of time to find another women to date. Even online dating it takes lots of time and effort and you need to send copious messages to various matches to finally get it to translate into date.
Only for the top percentile of guys in attractiveness, social status or looks is dating easy. Which is why I write that it is stupid to travel somewhere just to date or pickup women. For one, the average man has to grow on women like a mold, and constantly moving from locale to locale to enjoy traveling hinders that.
You have been brainwashed by youtubers. Stop watching Jordan Peterson or god knows whatever youtubers that attracts incels by theorizing men and women relationships.
If you have a personality, you don't have to think like that, as girls with a matching personality will come to you naturally.
You are a moron. The average guy when he breaks up with his current wife, women, even if he recovers mentally will take a long time to find another women and get into a relationship.
This is why I write that it is stupid to try to hook up with women as a tourist. Sure if you all you do is rave around other druggies, you may as well try to peg the absolutely bawd tier women that actually rave. But everyone else there is no point, you will not stay as a tourist long enough in a locale to get a women to lower her inhibitions enough to have sex with you. And there is little point in dating if you are leaving the city or town you are in the next day or so.
If there is a party and there are 10 men and 10 women, the 10 women will want to all frick the 2 most attractive guys. Women are hypergamous. While the average guy will be willing to frick 6-7 of the 10 women in the room. Unless you are one of the top tier guys in the looks department and are like an unfamous Ryan Gosling, it is a waste of time to try to seriously date or ply game while a tourist.
pathetic. Go outside
you are hated because you speak the truth. Looks is the most important factor in every social gathering.
These chankid nerds are such idiots and cosplayers. Yes, the average guy can get women, but he has to constantly work at and deal with constant rejection and massive effort just to finally get a single woman to date him.
Even the super social living at the bar, bar-hoppers I know when they break up -- it may take them a week, a month or maybe more to get another girlfriend. So imagine how stupid it is to spend your vacation trying to pick up women or get a girlfriend after your plane lands.
For good looking chads, sure you may as well since your playing the game on easy mode. But for those who aren't as good looking or wealthy you may as well enjoy your vacation and avoid stupid clubs.
Also if you think back to high school, college or your workplace even among fellow males there is a hierarchy based on looks. And very good looking guys who are quite frankly stupid still have way more male friends simply because of their looks. While the bald, ugly men even if they are more interesting struggle simply because of their bad genetic patrimony.
dude what are you even saying? people aren't trying to date when they travel, they're looking to hook up. that happens all the time
No it doesn’t. For the average guy to use a baseball analogy he probably bats .05 - .10 at best so he needs to hit on like 10-20 women to find one single interested woman. And that woman may just want a date which may not necessarily lead to casual sex. So the actual conversion. Since this is a medium full of autists/shutins I suspect most of you idiots believe at face value the empty boasts of other guys about their success with women. So you chankids think it’s easy and effortless…
Only for chads is hooking up easy. Hookups can happen every night or almost so for Chad thunderwiener. And in many countries there is almost no degenerate Western style hookup culture facilitated by drugs and alcohol at bars, clubs and raves.
>its going to be impossible to get interest from non-western women
>theyre totally mennonite-tier tradfus in their home countries but also instantly morph into giga-bawds once they arrive in the west
Care to explain picrel? At most, maybe 40 of them are from the west
I don’t get what that picrel is supposed to mean or signify.
You sound like a virgin incel. Real interactions does not rely purely on looks. In fact, looks are a very secondar factor for people to find a partner (regardless of gender).
Be socially dominant, be interesting, be funny, be in the right mood, be passionate, all of these stuffs will get you laid way more easily than just looking good.
You're a sad person and anons should not be influenced by you.
Lol, said the literal vigin incel chankid. And most importantly an idiot
No looks are literally the most important determinant. You can look like Henry Cavill and be broke and have no job and you will likely pull more women than a millionaire average guy. That said a millionaire because of social status will pull more than his non-millionaire younger self. And Henry Cavill being a multi-millionaire, famous and like 8 or 9 on a 10 scale good looking facially plus jacked could literally frick the wives of most of the chankid nerd idiots posts idiocies calling me incel. That is how women are they are hypergamous.
Only people like you who suck with women or are very stupid and believe Hollywood fantasies believe that personality maters. Sure I saw once a ugly fat black comedian do standup once in Charlotte, North Carolina. Despite being ugly and fat, since he has social status and is funny he can likely still pull women, but it is harder for him than if he wasn't fat or ugly.
When I think back to my high school years, there was this guy Jason who was Cuban, tall likely 6'1 or 6'2, very good looking and fairly muscular and about 190-200+ lbs. He was so good looking that you could always here the girls say "omg Jason" and constantly cooing and commenting on his looks and his clothing when he left the room. There was another kid Vinnie who wasn't particularly muscular or tall but he was so cute that girls constantly talked about him. If you think to your past when you went to high school you can likely find equivalent guys in your memories. Those are the type of the guys who can easily slay and if they go on vacation, yeah they may as date and pickup chicks because it is on super easy mode for them.
Conversely there was very ugly fat girl in my high school her name was Shelley. But she was always positive and upbeat despite everyone saying mean stuff about her behind her back and to her face. She literally did nothing wrong in life but be ugly.
Now I will give proof that looks are the most important determinant since idiots like you likely only read video game news most likely...
Okcupid has aggressively done experiments with its features like disabling photos:
>https://web.archive.org/web/20170216190818/https://theblog.okcupid.com/we-experiment-on-human-beings-5dd9fe280cd5#.hwo5xndgi
>And it wasn’t that “looks weren’t important” to the users who’d chosen to stick around. When the photos were restored at 4PM, 2,200 people were in the middle of conversations that had started “blind”. Those conversations melted away. The goodness was gone, in fact worse than gone. It was like we’d turned on the bright lights at the bar at midnight.
I hear there was a blinded reality show where potential daters had conversation without being able to see each other. And when they saw ugly people they clicked with in conservation the interest stopped...
Okcupid found that personality rating is just another proxy for looks since looks it is the most important social capital for determining attraction:
>Here’s some data I dug up from the backup tapes. Each dot here is a person. The two scores are within a half point of each other for 92% of the sample after just 25 votes (and that percentage approaches 100% as vote totals get higher).
>In short, according to our users, “looks” and “personality” were the same thing, which of course makes perfect sense because, you know, this young female account holder, with a 99th percentile personality
Part 3:
And here is another where economic and statistical analysis was applied to online dating:
>https://web.archive.org/web/20190312123109/https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/
>A data scientist representing the popular dating app “Hinge” reported on the Gini coefficients he had found in his company’s abundant data, treating “likes” as the equivalent of income. He reported that heterosexual females faced a Gini coefficient of 0.324, while heterosexual males faced a much higher Gini coefficient of 0.542. So neither sex has complete equality: in both cases, there are some “wealthy” people with access to more romantic experiences and some “poor” who have access to few or none. But while the situation for women is something like an economy with some poor, some middle class, and some millionaires, the situation for men is closer to a world with a small number of super-billionaires surrounded by huge masses who possess almost nothing.
>On a list of 149 countries’ Gini indices provided by the CIA World Factbook, this would place the female dating economy as 75th most unequal (average—think Western Europe) and the male dating economy as the 8th most unequal (kleptocracy, apartheid, perpetual civil war—think South Africa).
And here is a good video on lookism and the halo effect:
"Are Incels Right? Evaluating Lookism and the Halo Effect"
The Halo effect is that good looking people are perceived to be cool, be smarter, more desirable, have more social capital even if they do nothing. Literally once I was on a NJ Transit train and fat black women and I found myself inexplicably hating on her and "why did she sit next to me" simply because she drew the shortest straw in the looks department. Conversely had she been good looking I would have been happy for no reason but the fortune that a good looking women sat near me.
I botched the last part: basically a fat black woman sat next to me on a train and I found myself being angry and hating her for sitting next to me for no reason besides that she simply lost the genetic lottery. She did nothing but people perceive those who are extremely ugly very negatively as a corollary to the halo effect that good looking people have.
Further there is even a known physical attractiveness bias in the legal system where good looking defendants get off very often simply because of the social patrimony of their looks and the benefit of the halo effect:
>https://www.thelawproject.com.au/insights/attractiveness-bias-in-the-legal-system#yui_3_17_2_1_1596464673834_366:~:text=Physical%20Attractiveness%20had%20a%20significant%20influence,and%20a%20maximum%20increase%20of%20304.88%25.
Now I am not saying average guys don't get women, they do. But it is quite difficult for them and they can't easily do it despite empty guy talk boasting that maintains they easily slay. And even ugly guys eventually on a long enough timeline get women. But absolutely the average guy is not hooking up easily so don't waste your precious vacation trying night after night after night after night.
>be called an incel
>"no i'm not an incel I have a proof"
>let's see your proof
>quote a video called "are incels right ?"
Sure buddy.
Your only examples are about online dating. I agree that looks are very important for online dating, because it is the only factor that you can objectively judge online.
But online dating is not real life dating. This is why I said "go outside" a few posts earlier. In the real world, charisma matters more than looks.
Anyway this mentality is not going to get you anywhere. If you think you can't get laid cause you are ugly (which you probably are), well too bad, it's the only thing you cannot change about you, so good luck being happy with your mentality.
No it doesn't moron. Again think back to when you were in high school. You will likely remember guys like Vinnie and Jason from my school who were so objectively attractive that women kept talking about them and you kept overhearing them talking about them "omg it's Jason".
And I also gave a source about even in the legal system it is known that when the accused are very good looking that they are much, much more likely to get off.
Charisma doesn't matter more than looks. You are a moron that doesn't read, doesn't listen to podcasts, isn't intellectually curious and wastes all your free time in the empty whole of Hollywood escapism, anime and vidya games like most chanarchist losers. So you believe the stupid tropes the churn out and ignore real life data and your lived experience.
Here is another source for your to ignore a 20/20 episode where they paid actors who fairly attractive and very attractive to perform the same scripts and give the same lines and feign that they hard car trouble or that they were job applicants:
>ABC 20/20 Special Lookism Part 1 HOW YOUR LOOKS EFFECT EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE
Earlier a guy told you "you have been brainwashed by youtubers", and now your whoe argumentation is relying on youtube videos, bro you just confirm everything that has been said about you.
Also, you don't know me. I don't play video games or watch commercial movies. I live in Paris and spend most of my free time in techno raves, jazz jams and open DJ places. I have seen a lot of people getting wasted, and it's rarely the most good looking guy that gets the girls, it's always the more socially dominant, the leader of the group, or the drug dealer who gets the girls.
The drug dealer gets the girls because she wants free drugs.
I don't hang out with druggie ravers and I hate drug addicts. But I know to tolerate the ultra loud music, the powerful bass, annoying lights plus being around hardcore drug addicts you have to be out of your mind of drugs. I remember the druggie raver girls at my high school in NJ in the late 90's used to wear imitation baby pacifiers around their necks likely to signify that they were wiener guzzling bawds and they actually constantly suck on them in class and in the hallway... If there was no drugs you likely couldn't have raves or the shitty rave culture as Henry Rollins observed:
It could be that ravers are so incapacitated that they can't perceive looks.
But my point still stands that you are a ditsy escapist o be tuned into the real world.
And people who do lots of drugs aren't in their right minds. One of my ex-workers was a hardcore drug addict, heroin or something. He was ugly and he had like 4-5 kids with three different women. But it didn't matter because the only bond heroin addicts need is heroin. The same thing goes with alcoholics or potheads. But few people are so drugged out that looks don't matter.
>I too wonder what is YVR>BOG and why this perenially online chankid nerd is so lazy or weird to think anyone would know wtf he is referencing.
Jesus christ you tard, if you needed help to recognize airport codes you really dont belong on this board
Nerd, I only know the airport codes for airports I frequently fly out of or into to. But of course like an autist you’ll pretend that everyone memorizes every airport code.
hey dude kenso can be fun as frick
Berlin is crazy. Especially the former soviet neighborhood Friedrichschain, you are on another planet.
Paris is not bad too, a lot of mentally ill people come here.
I have been to Bangkok and I don't recommend it to party. It's mainly for moronic tourists to blow their money. You can meet some cute thai girls, but not in the bars. Just hang out in night market, don't drink alcohol and you will socialize easily.
Nashville, TN.
Provo, Utah, USA
>party cities
You have to be 18 to post here
Rio de Janeiro, nothing comes close
Goa India
Istanbul, there's like 100 clubs from posh to your usual corner place and it's full of asian and femboy escorts
Charlotte North Carolina
I live 2 hours from Charlotte. What are some good spots?
ripon wisconsin
I wish blackpillers would kill themselves and get it over with instead of shitting up everywhere they can with endless rants about why they're balckpilled
You cannot really be that blackpilled about this, if you were you wouldnt bother trying to convince anyone, because it clearly doesn't matter right? Nothing to be done, right? So why say anything.
I wish you stupid escapists would get to the back of the bus and stfu like Rosa Parks should have.
Seriously if you know you spend most your time on video games and Hollywood and that is how your worldview is formed:
Why do you even interject yourself into such issues?
Are you even trying to argue anything? Do you think PERSONALITY matters more than looks like this tard?
Do you think hooking up is easy for the average guy which is a 5 in the looks scale that it is worth for him to waste his short vacation that may be a week to a month trying to date women at clubs and bars while abroad night after night? Till after maybe a week, two weeks of constant rejection and spending ten hours or more on it he maybe gets one date? Which may or may not lead to sex since women won't easily drop their pants for the average guy?
Not reading all that. Youre a loser, what could I learn from you? How to be a bigger loser?
Either fix your shit or rope, I dont care.
I will stop replying cause I get nothing out of this, except the point of view of a angry and frustrated little guy.
The world is spinning without you bro
Hopefully you have a drug overdose and you get trampled by shitty ravers all night long and the mortician can't even render your face and body well enough for an open casket funeral.
I have no idea how your Western Europeans and Anglosphere whites have reached the state where not being a drug addict and alcoholic is actually something to make fun of in your sad little worldview... You would figure after raping and looting most the world that you would for the last four hundred years you guys would be happy. But you literally can't cope with reality and have become societies riddled with addicts.
I don't even take drugs
Holy shit, the guy obsessed with moronic incel blackpill shit is a thirdie. You cannot make this shit up
I am obsessed with understanding how the world actually functions.
Idiots like you are obsessed with ignoring how the world functions. Which is why idiots like you escapists of various ilk can only ad-hominen: incel, blackpill, get rope, have a nice day.
Literally research has also shown that objectively attractive people also have higher life time monetary earnings than their non-attractive peers.
Attractive real estate brokers make 12% more:
>https://www.businessinsider.com/halo-effect-money-beauty-bias-2014-11
More attractive candidates are more likely to be elected into US Congress:
>https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1532673X19875710
Seriously why are you escapists obsessed with being idiots?
Are you trying to argue that personality matters more? Are you trying to argue that average looking guys can easily hookup based on your copious amounts of drug use, vidya gaming and Hollywood consumption wherein you try to escape reality? A 5 scale guy who isn't particularly talent or wealthy can hookup on a long enough timeline, but it isn't easy. Writing incel doesn't alter reality.
Not reading that. Go be an incel somewhere else
Dumb escapist, be like Rosa Parks should have been and get to the back of the bus. Just don't comment unless it is about escapism.
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