Basically my father's girlfriend is crazy rich and can allow herself to do those types of vacations. i was born different and I am a friendless loser NEET, I despise traveling in general. i explicitly told my father i didnt want to go and i rather stay at home but he cried and shouted at me for days that if i wasnt coming he wouldnt go either (he is paying all the expenses)
aside from my father all the people going there are the girlfriend's family and friends. it sounds like its going to be a massively miserable time. how to cope or what to do? i cant force myself to be happy about it and everyone else acts like its a dream.
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I forgot to add that this is outside the country and with crazy expensive costs.
Interact with people. Befriend dad’s gf’s family. Enjoy this for you fathers sake. He clearly loves you and wants to spend time with you. Try some new things and maybe you’ll actually enjoy them
I've traveled before with him, this isnt the first time. we share 0 interests and we dont particularly enjoy conversation together so or relationship is not amazing
yeah, this is how every person i mentioned the topic reacts. i understand how priviledged I am, doesnt make me any less miserable
Literally just try and find some fun stuff to do and then do it. No need to “cope”. Get some vitamin D in you.
I love running, I love reading, I love playing vidya, I love interacting with the few online friends i have that share my interests.
i dont like spending 2k on visiting a random places with people that barely tolerate me over my lack of personality, or go to expensive restaurants with food i dont even like. all while everyone else pities me or hate my guts for killing the "vibes"
You’ll regret not travelling when you’re older and no longer have the opportunity. How old are you? This seems less like an issue of you not liking vacations and more you being a resentful neet. You could use this as an opportunity to try and get out of your neet ways as anon said here
How far away is this trip?
>You’ll regret not travelling when you’re older and no longer have the opportunity.
No i wont. I ACTUALLY want to travel outside my country, you know for what? to see my friends. party with them. go to conventions. indulge in our weeb interests. not be forced to travel with people that straight up tolerate me at best to do whatever the frick THEY want.
I am 22. Being a neet wasnt literal. But I am only studying right now.
People don't understand what the actual problem is here. Its not so much the hate of traveling as it is the people you have to go with.
>You’ll regret not travelling when you’re older and no longer have the opportunity.
Only women say this stupid shit
This place is probably near a beach, beach running is 10/10 would recommend
restaurants with food i dont even like
Look up the food you like thats available in this place
Dino tendies?
I don't think there's any place on earth that doesn't serve tendies
You don't have a lack of personality they do. Its not your fault your Dad is not with your mother the woman he's supposed to be raising you with. Your mom would not make you feel this way
You don't have to bring down his girlfriend or his family. they are fine people, I just dont vibe at all with them for different reasons,
I'm not bringing them down but you don't want to go because of the way they make you feel. Duh!
>i understand how priviledged I am, doesnt make me any less miserable
It's not that you're miserable, it's that you're being a spoiled pansy. Alexander the great was the son of a king, but he wasn't a pansy
It's not a big deal. Ask for advice if you're getting kicked out or you screwed up your personal life, not because you have to deal with people on a lavish vacation
STFU its his dad's girlfriend's family. Its gonna SUUUCK
>guys I am being offered free expensive shit
>how to cope
Because its not just him and his dad.
Sounds like an opportunity to cure your neetdom.
Just enjoy the lifestyle OP, keep your thoughts to yourself
Become your dad's girlfriend living dildo. This should solve your immediate financial issues and give you some useful skills.
True, I guess you guys cant give me advice on this. I just wanted to vent.
>my father's girlfriend is crazy rich
>he is paying all the expenses
This sounds like a shit experience but there's not really much you can do when you're still living under your fathers roof.
Where are you going OP?
Are you planning to assassinate me?
No but I'ma finna take your sweet butt
You sound like a person who listens to suggestions even if they're bad. I'd put my foot down and say No I'm not going. I'd say if you want to catch a movie with me and only me, we can do that. I'm not going on this shitty vacation with shitty people.
Unless.......
Is there a way you can get away? Like when you go to the destination, will you have your own car? You could be pretty much absent from the group while still enjoying the area the whole time?