Forced vacation with my dad and his girlfriend (+friends). How do I cope?

Basically my father's girlfriend is crazy rich and can allow herself to do those types of vacations. i was born different and I am a friendless loser NEET, I despise traveling in general. i explicitly told my father i didnt want to go and i rather stay at home but he cried and shouted at me for days that if i wasnt coming he wouldnt go either (he is paying all the expenses)

aside from my father all the people going there are the girlfriend's family and friends. it sounds like its going to be a massively miserable time. how to cope or what to do? i cant force myself to be happy about it and everyone else acts like its a dream.

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  1. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    I forgot to add that this is outside the country and with crazy expensive costs.

  2. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Interact with people. Befriend dad’s gf’s family. Enjoy this for you fathers sake. He clearly loves you and wants to spend time with you. Try some new things and maybe you’ll actually enjoy them

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've traveled before with him, this isnt the first time. we share 0 interests and we dont particularly enjoy conversation together so or relationship is not amazing

      >guys I am being offered free expensive shit
      >how to cope

      yeah, this is how every person i mentioned the topic reacts. i understand how priviledged I am, doesnt make me any less miserable

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        Literally just try and find some fun stuff to do and then do it. No need to “cope”. Get some vitamin D in you.

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          I love running, I love reading, I love playing vidya, I love interacting with the few online friends i have that share my interests.

          i dont like spending 2k on visiting a random places with people that barely tolerate me over my lack of personality, or go to expensive restaurants with food i dont even like. all while everyone else pities me or hate my guts for killing the "vibes"

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            You’ll regret not travelling when you’re older and no longer have the opportunity. How old are you? This seems less like an issue of you not liking vacations and more you being a resentful neet. You could use this as an opportunity to try and get out of your neet ways as anon said here

            Sounds like an opportunity to cure your neetdom.

            How far away is this trip?

            • 9 months ago
              Anonymous

              >You’ll regret not travelling when you’re older and no longer have the opportunity.

              No i wont. I ACTUALLY want to travel outside my country, you know for what? to see my friends. party with them. go to conventions. indulge in our weeb interests. not be forced to travel with people that straight up tolerate me at best to do whatever the frick THEY want.

              I am 22. Being a neet wasnt literal. But I am only studying right now.

              • 9 months ago
                Anonymous

                People don't understand what the actual problem is here. Its not so much the hate of traveling as it is the people you have to go with.

            • 9 months ago
              Anonymous

              >You’ll regret not travelling when you’re older and no longer have the opportunity.
              Only women say this stupid shit

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            This place is probably near a beach, beach running is 10/10 would recommend

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            restaurants with food i dont even like
            Look up the food you like thats available in this place

            • 9 months ago
              Anonymous

              Dino tendies?

              • 9 months ago
                Anonymous

                I don't think there's any place on earth that doesn't serve tendies

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            You don't have a lack of personality they do. Its not your fault your Dad is not with your mother the woman he's supposed to be raising you with. Your mom would not make you feel this way

            • 9 months ago
              Anonymous

              You sound like a person who listens to suggestions even if they're bad. I'd put my foot down and say No I'm not going. I'd say if you want to catch a movie with me and only me, we can do that. I'm not going on this shitty vacation with shitty people.

              Unless.......

              Is there a way you can get away? Like when you go to the destination, will you have your own car? You could be pretty much absent from the group while still enjoying the area the whole time?

              You don't have to bring down his girlfriend or his family. they are fine people, I just dont vibe at all with them for different reasons,

              • 9 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not bringing them down but you don't want to go because of the way they make you feel. Duh!

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >i understand how priviledged I am, doesnt make me any less miserable
        It's not that you're miserable, it's that you're being a spoiled pansy. Alexander the great was the son of a king, but he wasn't a pansy
        It's not a big deal. Ask for advice if you're getting kicked out or you screwed up your personal life, not because you have to deal with people on a lavish vacation

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      STFU its his dad's girlfriend's family. Its gonna SUUUCK

  3. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    >guys I am being offered free expensive shit
    >how to cope

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because its not just him and his dad.

  4. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like an opportunity to cure your neetdom.

  5. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just enjoy the lifestyle OP, keep your thoughts to yourself

  6. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Become your dad's girlfriend living dildo. This should solve your immediate financial issues and give you some useful skills.

  7. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    True, I guess you guys cant give me advice on this. I just wanted to vent.

  8. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    >my father's girlfriend is crazy rich
    >he is paying all the expenses

  9. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    This sounds like a shit experience but there's not really much you can do when you're still living under your fathers roof.

  10. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Where are you going OP?

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      Are you planning to assassinate me?

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        No but I'ma finna take your sweet butt

  11. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    You sound like a person who listens to suggestions even if they're bad. I'd put my foot down and say No I'm not going. I'd say if you want to catch a movie with me and only me, we can do that. I'm not going on this shitty vacation with shitty people.

    Unless.......

    Is there a way you can get away? Like when you go to the destination, will you have your own car? You could be pretty much absent from the group while still enjoying the area the whole time?

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