>have cute gf that lives in tokyo. >she comes to meet up in europe and have good times every few months

>have cute gf that lives in tokyo
>she comes to meet up in europe and have good times every few months
>my turn to go visit her
>cheats on me when my trip is less than 1 week away
wtf do i do now anons? i have 30 days in tokyo to waste and no accommodation budget.
Any help or advice for budgeting when this trip suddenly turned solo? Any omega cheapo or free places to sleep at? i know it's horrible but i have only like 90000 yen for the whole month.
Cancelling is not an option, non-refundable flight.
Also how can i cope with this woman suddenly turning plain evil.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The good news is you've got a survivable budget. Your cheapest options are to go on Facebook, look for groups in the city you want to stay, and search for ads for rooms for rent. If you don't find anything immediately (since time is the essence), post ads yourself seeking a sharehouse.
    I presume you want to stay in Tokyo, but be prepared to go somewhere smaller or the countryside. It would just be the last-minute availability that will hurt your chances, not your your budget. I've stayed in Tokyo on 30k/yen, paid in cash, and I'm sure you can find something for 20k if you dial back your expectations.
    That leaves you with 2000+ yen per day. Lots of "free" stuff to do in Tokyo [minus the cost of getting there]. If you're somewhere countryside, make the most of it and immerse yourself in learning Japanese, exercising, learning to cook using new-to-you ingredients, etc. With luck, you'll have a sharemate or two who will do some activities with you.
    Let us know how it turns out. It will be one of the more interesting Japan threads on this board.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      sounds like very reasonable advice but i will leave it as a last resort because 1 i am introverted af and if i can avoid sharehouses and such other places i will, and 2 i'd rather stay in tokyo area.
      I'm looking at those manga cafes with the tatami floor and feel like that's a good alternative for a couple weeks, only issue is the prices vary a lot and i can't tell how to check the specific prices. any advice on that?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You'll spend more than 30k staying at manga cafes and you'll have less privacy and more forced social interactions than a sharehouse. People in Japanese sharehouses (espeically Asians, who are 99% of the residents in them) will come home and stay in their rooms and avoid eye contact unless you really force them to engage with you. You've only got a week to plan so I suggest you get off your ass and start looking for accommodations you can afford.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          been looking at sharehouses and they all end up as more than 30k with the utility fees. If you know of any cheaper ones i will gladly accept a link.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Search Facebook groups and post an ad if you don't see something in your budget. It's just advice - take it or don't.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Cancelling is not an option, non-refundable flight.
    You're victim of the sunk cost fallacy, if you do not want to go to Japan right now then cancel the flight (they will have to refund the non-flight portions of the fare) and readjust your plans.
    Of course this doesn't apply if you're still up to see Japan right now, might be a good distraction.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      yeah, i'd rather rot in tokyo than rot in this routine. Also great food

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Also how can i cope with this woman suddenly turning plain evil.
    By realising she, as most of them, were evil from the start. ITT: Anon gets redpilled on women.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Have you considered that it’s down to cultural differences?
      Cheating is not seen as big of a deal in Japan

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Guy who whiteknights for whores on the Internet
        t. you

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I’m not defending them, I’m just pointing out that they’re not le submissive trad waifus from your animes

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        she's not japanese she's just lived there for a few years. Also we agreed from the start it was a monogamous close relationship. cheaters are trash

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        So because it's not a big deal for them it shouldn't be a big deal to you? Have you thought that this might be one of the reasons for their low birthrate?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          No, what I’m saying is if you’re planning on dating a Japanese girl beware that the possibility that she’ll cheat on you is likely.
          If you can’t live with that then it’s best to avoid them

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Cheating is not seen as big of a deal in Japan

        Any actual evidence for your straight up lie?

        I’ve lived in Japan for 4 years, dated numerous girls and contrary to the hot dogshit you typed, cheating very much is a big deal to Japanese girls.

        You’re so brainwashed you probably introduce yourself to new women as a regular client of local prostitutes.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes, but depends on what "cheating" means to girls here. Getting into another relationship with a different girl? Yes, cheating.

          Going to a soapland or getting some head at a pink salon? That's just boys entertainment. My girlfriend explained this to me.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Kek. Weebs getting angry you redpilling them on their waifus

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Cancelling is not an option, non-refundable flight.
    Are you willing to change the flight?

    Usually you can postpone the travel date and even the destination, for a small cost. It can be a few dozen dollars, it could be a couple hundred, but it's a drop in the bucket for a lot of peace of mind.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Not OP, but I just arrived in Tokyo. Now what? Any recommendations for places to eat or things to see?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      First thing you do is go to the nearest famimart and get some famichiki, After that your next steps become clear.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Go meet other girls you moron.

    Let this to be a lesson to weeaboos. Japanese girls aren't your kawaii waifus. They cheat like crazy.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Did you even read the whole thread you moron? I said later on in the thread that she's not even japanese, she just lives there, and we had an established monogamous relationship. In the end cheaters will be trash regardless of what counmjhhkdtry they're from.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Stay mad lol

        My advice still applies. Instead of whining about some bitch on sighsee go find another one. WAHHHHH WHAT DO I DO IN JAPAN NOW OMG LIKE WHAT DO I EVEN DO IN HECKIN JAPAN?!?!?!?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Fucker my main issue is not the chick it's the money, if i knew i had to pay for accomodation i would have saved for longer and came next year instead. Ofc japan has a ton of things to do and i can just meet other chicks, but if you have no cash you are limited on shit to do.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I think your main issue is your gf realized she had bigger balls than you and cheated because she didn't respect you, then told you to passively force a breakup. You said you're introverted af. Get out of your shell and do some stuff you normally wouldn't. Otherwise your cycle of failed relationships and mediocrity will continue.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              She didn't tell me, i had to find out on my own. but i don't disagree that there's a cycle i need to break so i'll give you that. still not my main issue in this trip though.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm kind of in the same boat but I am only spending 12 days and my budget it 250,000 yen, I'm only going there because Tokyo does a direct flight to my hometown in Australia and I don't want to go to sydney or Melbourne and change for another flight.

    Also people rave about Japan, it can't be that bad, right? Right?

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just "forgive" her for the duration of your trip. Pretend like it's all good, stay with her for the trip, and fuck her as much as you can. Leech as much as you can from her. Do whatever you feel like during the trip. Once you leave just ghost her.

    Warning though, this might make her fall in love with you

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like another opportunity to get STDs and/or cocktrapped. Look into my eyes, OP. The glory of Rome is forever.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I refuse to even pretend to forgive a cheater.

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