My bf and his wife are supposedly in a Dead Bedroom situation for a long time now, but they regularly go for vacations. I got involved with him about 1.5yrs back, started as a rebound for my failing relationship with my ex. But we fell in love. We live in two states, he comes to visit me whenever he can. I knew I'm fucked when I started having real feelings for him. But it happened. We talk to each other daily. We both look forward to our call. I got divorced a month back (reasons not related to this).
Italy is my favorite destination. A romantic getaway to Italy is like my dream. He know that. So when I heard about their trip last month, my heart sank. Is it normal to feel this much pain. How do I handle this? He said he has been contemplating divorce for a long time now. But he's the one who did all the planning, managed all the hassle with the visa process for this trip. Do you plan such an intimate getaway when you are planning for a divorce soon?
People who went through similar stuff... Is it better to go no-contact during his vacation? Or should I keep my cool and stay in contact receiving his selfies and picturesque photos while slowly dying inside? I don't want to ruin their vacation by being a bum.