Where should I travel to either radically change my life or die if I'm a loser with no prospects and no hope who fricked up everything he ever tried?
I want to escape but I don't know where
Places to change your life
Where should I travel to either radically change my life or die if I'm a loser with no prospects and no hope who fricked up everything he ever tried?
I want to escape but I don't know where
Your local trades school. Your country needs more plumbers, anon.
USA, the land of opportunities.
Get a trucking license, work a year and then move to central africa or papau new guinea. Strong demand for clean nosed people who don’t have the local connection’s to steal a truck full of building supplies.
Work in central africa or papau new guinea.
Can we assume OP wants to make more than $2 per day?
What the frick is with this board and the massive fricking losers that post here
>baaaw where can I run away to
>am I too old for hostel life if I'm 30
>how 2 coom?
Yes, I will frick off back to R*ddit.
the crypto boom destroyed it. a bunch of people became thousandaires overnight and immediately thought they could live like kings in SEA. now its just loser central.
These guys get it. COVID quarantines were the beginning of the end for this board. Whether people accept it or not, stories go around about failed sexpats in SEA.
There's more to traveling than cooming and hiking the local cost of living.
the majority of people who visit here are basement dwelling incels with no job and just want to jerk off to each other larp stories
the people who actually do travel are surprise - actually traveling and any threads they make gets drowned out or derailed by said losers.
the slow pace of this board and general lack of moderation has made a cesspit border lining on uselessness
Demotivational posters like (You) are worse than spine snappers, luggage drug planters, and drooling porn-addict coomerLARPers combined.
It's a byproduct of the Western middle-class being btfo over the past few decades. Life is increasingly all or nothing, so now instead of not being great with money you're perma-broke and instead of having trouble with girls you're a hopeless incel. Because past generations with similar characteristics were more successful, there's a strong environmental focus on why people are underperforming. It's not hard to see why this translates into wanting to go overseas where things are more like how they were for past Western generations. If there's actually a place where you can live a better life, it absolutely makes sense to live with those people and not with people like you who take it upon themselves to attack them for not taking their mediocre lives in stride.
Underrated post.
I'm pretty sure trying to pay to get laid on the daily by strangers and faking your place of work weren't normal, everyday elements of past generations.
I left everything behind at age 20 to hit the road and find happiness. 29 at the moment, but still haven't escaped myself, and despite finding a degree of financial success, I have not yet overcome the problems I set out to escape.
>or die
Suicide is the "final mistake", the only mistake you cannot recover from. Not saying that it shouldn't be an option, but that it should be the last option, after psychedelic drug binges, joining a religious commune, and other radical choices.
>radically change my life
Radically changing your surroundings can give you a new perspective on life back home. Travel adventures help you become more adaptable and unaffected by discomfort. However, mere travel won't change who you fundamentally are.
>I'm a loser with no prospects and no hope who fricked up everything he ever tried
This self-sabotaging thought pattern does not magically disappear when you board a plane or cross a border. The worst aspect of self-sabotaging behavior is wallowing in self-pity and obsessing over past mistakes, instead of putting shit behind you, closing that door, and choosing to pursue the opportunities which present themselves, even if your reward circuits are still too depressed to say "hell yeah!"
Personally, after years of social failure and isolation in the USA (plus winter excursions to Latin America), I decided to put everything behind me and pin my hopes on a winter in Southeast Asia. The act of making a major decision and having a radical life change to look forward to has not changed who I am, but it has given me something to focus on.
>I want to escape but don't know where
The "escaping" part has to happen before you leave, otherwise you will bring all your mental baggage with you. Clear your mind, and refuse to let your past control your thought patterns. Make it a habit to block out all thoughts of your past failures and mistakes. In short, stop thinking, and simply exist in a state of present awareness.
This guy gets it so I will just add a few notes.
>I left everything behind at age 20 to hit the road and find happiness
Same but now 42
>psychedelic drug binges, joining a religious commune, and other radical choices
This. I have done all three. Psychedelic "drug binges" can bring a lot of positive change. I would advise a 5-day ayahuasca retreat somewhere other than Iquitos (Ecuador has some excellent retreats, a couple of good ones in Bolivia - see ayaadvisors.com)
>This self-sabotaging thought pattern does not magically disappear when you board a plane or cross a border
98% of the world prays or meditates. We are part of nature and; therefore, it is clearly a useful mechanism we have developed. Bears should hibernate, birds should migrate, and you should pray. There is science related to neuroplasticity - we create new synaptic pathways. Find whatever fits with you to practice this. Focus on being more valuable to the world, a humble servant. This sense of value will indirectly pull you out of the pit you find yourself in.
>The "escaping" part has to happen before you leave, otherwise you will bring all your mental baggage with you. Clear your mind, and refuse to let your past control your thought patterns. Make it a habit to block out all thoughts of your past failures and mistakes. In short, stop thinking, and simply exist in a state of present awareness.
Sage
It’s so funny how every white loser (myself included) just lasers in on “SEA” (let’s be honest that just means Thailand).
It won’t erase your mental baggage and hardwired neuropathy but it MAY give you point, purpose, and drive. It’s been the driving force of my life since 2017. I’m obsessed and consumed by going back to Thailand, so I work 60 hours a week and my will is strong.
The only way you escape being a loser is to stop rehearsing or giving sustanance to the rumination and thought patterns that keep you there. The only thing that can actually help you do this is to be inundated in a life full of social relationships and interactions where you’re constantly forced to deal with the present moment (for these relationships and interactions to be successful). It’s hard work
So you don't live in thailand?
…..no, my life just revolves around the short trips that I can go on
The lack of a father figure is very obvious behind some of the posts itt.
>if I'm a loser with no prospects and no hope who fricked up everything he ever tried
why do you think thailand is so popular on this board lol
Nepal or Bhutan
Ever read the first chapter of moby dick?
Go to the sea
classic route for someone like you would be esl teacher in japan/korea/china
Simply traveling outside the USA was enough for me. I'm 2 weeks into my first month in Japan and it's already well apparent how indoctrinated the US is to fat women who suck BBC and won't give the white man what they need. I actually just had this conversation at a bar tonight with a couple who were so crazy in the head it made me scared. They were taking their honeymoon in Japan and talked about going back to raise a family in the US, I myself being from Portland, know what I was talking about when I told them they would be better off moving out to Asia. They were clueless to the fact their children and family have the best chance outside the US from "dangerous groups", low society values, and keeping their marriage together. They laughed and thought I was drunk which eventually ended up them stop talking to me all together.
It was a strong taste of reality realizing this is how far I could have become, women have lead the men astray again... He'd rather settle for some white who will have a kid, become fat, and then spend the weekends at TGIF with Tyrone to land up on /gif/ blacked instead of listening to advice. Once I get a job I am 100% moving out here, slamming some jav looking asian who will look that way till 50, pumping out as many kids as possible, and raising a family with good values that isn't fricked up world views.
>I myself being from Portland, know what I was talking about
Is this bait, lmfao. try moving out of that hellscape coast for starters, then try developing an adult opinion
No, PNW is white mans territory Portland is what most every other city is going through anyways.
>try moving out of that hellscape coast for starters
LOL so where
LA? nope
NY hell no
Boston? I hear it's getting bad
San Diego? Too hot no comfy rain
Alsaka? Terrible women I heard
Denver? Druggies and homeless
Not going to move to some shithole like texas where it gets 90 FRICKING degrees in summer regularly. All the people from California ran to Idaho and Montana shitting it up. I wish Jefferson State would happen so we could start anew with better standards and regulations. Face it the best parts of what was left in the US was all on the coast since day 1. There isn't anything to do in fricking north dakota or some hillbilly hick town where people look like the methheads from pikes place and all frick their sisters. Besides that they are all going to be fat as the US is indoctrinated on keeping people in wage cages, then a car, and then in their sofa. Unlike in Japan where people walk, bike, and happily exercise daily for their countries pride that it makes what the US look like dogshit. There is no standards left in America outside maybe the Amish who hold good trad values, but I'd rather not deal with that. Asia is where white men make their last stand, you're a fool to go back to the US for any reason.
San diego is only two hot like 3 months of the year. The rest is perfect
Based. This will make shills seethe, recently the second you say anything even remotely bad about the US armies of shills come out to seethe. The US is a humiliation ritual for middle class white men and there is no country in the world more cucked to fat women. Moving abroad (in my case LatAm) was the best decision I ever made. I think the women situation has gotten bad in the US though that something is going to break there but I don’t know what. Anons don’t understand what it’s like to live in a country that doesn’t hate you.
You're not white. I know the other thread you're in, your syntax is not white.
Whiteness is in the heart and bloodline puto. I bet your family name is weak.
Holy shit, are you Doomentio?
>Once I get a job I am 100% moving out here
ok you kinda overdid it with that line. all in all an amusing read nonetheless
so how often a day do you jerk it to cuck porn?
If you were bitter, obese, unhygienic, and terminally online in Portland, you'll be bitter, obese, unhygienic, and terminally online anywhere else you'd go. I get that the U.S. is in shit right now, but California, Mississippi, and West Virginia aren't the only states in the country. (You) would know that if you didn't get your world view exclusively from the outrage traffic farms of SighSee and /misc/.
Join the military