How do you travel solo in your 30s without looking like a huge loser?

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's pretty much impossible but you should have activities planned, book things you want to do, and have an objective.

    >sightseeing

    Is not really an objective

    Going to see a certain castle and getting autistic about it is.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why would you look like a loser for traveling solo in your 30s?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      /trv/fags are self conscious morones

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >sighseefags are self conscious morones
        This. FFS. What losers think like that!? Self conscious, dwarf esteem little gays.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Nobody fucking cares, especially if you're somewhat social and don't look like an actual autist.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Don't do things a loser would do.

    Or be a manlet and have everyone assume you're still in highschool

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    helps by not being a huge loser

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    No one is paying ANY fucking attention to you, get over yourself

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not true.
      Sometimes I stare at people in public and I know I’m not the only one

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Right but it doesn't fucking matter, animals with eyes are going to look at other animals moving around in their field of view. Even if someone is actually thinking "lol look at that loser" it's not like their thoughts are going to jump out of their head and hurt you.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not entirely true. The locals won't care but it does make some other Western tourists (usually women) uneasy.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >but it does make some other Western tourists (usually women) uneasy.
        Can you explain to me what make tourists women uneasy when they see a 30+ solo traveler?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          they will assume that you are there because you can't get pussy at home, or that you're a pedophile looking for specific things.
          For women, those two things are equally creepy

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            This says way more about you and how you think and how you think women think than you realise.
            Creep

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              It was a joke anon. Please don't think that about me

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I couldn't tell you since I'm not a woman. I would guess that single guys make some women uncomfortable. They much prefer to be in a couples only environment.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            As a solo dude, I'm not going to be in couples type environments. I'm going to be in places where the local women interested in single western men are. And western tourist women don't like those spaces so I rarely see them.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        After I leave the airport I usually don't see Western women again until I go back to the airport to fly home.

        Occasionally I might see them, but I'll usually ignore them since I'll probably have a young 18-25 y.o. local hottie on my arm going back to my hotel room.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is a meme. People do pay attention to each other, it's just that non-retards understand that the value of random strangers opinions is close to zero.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >travelling at 30
    >solo even
    shouldn't you have a wife and kids by then? Traveling years should be 16-25, MAYBE up to 27. Should be settled down with a trophy wife you picked up from a good country like europe or SEA to help the population out.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I havent gotten to travel once yet and I'm already 26

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        And yet you're the most active person on sighsee pretending you're from every country like the larper you are

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Why would you assume that?
          No, I lurk most threads and live vicariously through the people who do travel. Occasionally I'll ask a question about a country.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ok boomer

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        that poster sounds underage if anything

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >SEA
      >trophy wife
      If any man can get one, then she ain't a trophy, she's a participation ribbon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What decade do you think it is old man?

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Not gaf because I'm fucking 18-25 hotties overseas.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Who gives a fuck

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What people think about you while traveling is not really important
    What people think about you back home is the real killer. They will probably think you are a closeted fag if your a guy. I Have a brother in law that’s done some solo traveling. I’m sure he was taking it up the ass.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      why are you thinking about your brother-in-law taking it up the ass there guy?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Because he acts like a fag in the best of times, and he travelled to a renowned gay destination without his wife. Pretty straightforward

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Moscow?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Turkey.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            you spelled warsaw wrong
            poland is known for its butthurt

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          OP's house?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Gottem

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Wear some expensive clothes and be handsome. Those are the only two things most people will judge you by.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >How do you travel solo in your 30s without looking like a huge loser?
    Step 1: Travel.
    Step 2: If somebody asks how old you are, give them a number lower than 30.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    stay in hotel
    dont talk to anyone
    pretend you're there on business

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This. Men in their 30s is easily the biggest demographic that travels for business. I gurantee you if you saw a guy in his 30s that is dressed even slightly above average you’d assume that. Or at least easily believe it if he told you that. Also I agree with others who cares.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        100% true. I was in LA for a few weeks (not on business) but was working with one of the networks at the time, so I would just say I was in town for some meetings at [network].

        It’s a one-industry town so nobody questions it, and if anybody had pushed I was genuinely working with people at the network that I could have referenced.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    literally just stop caring

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Travel in your 50s is the best as an American. All the local women will want to fuck you to escape their poor country. All the services will cater to you for your perceived wealth. Only other Americans you see are either much older so fat and decrepit or much younger and fat and decrepit so easy to avoid or evade. Everyone treats you like a rockstar

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      All the blackpill zoomers will try to argue this but it’s unironically true lmfao. Lookism retards don’t realize how poor these countries are and thag Americans are a prize overseas, runaway hypergamy to the level of america is solely a product of the good times

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is also because guys in their 50's have a much better attitude than the brooding neurotic guy in his 20's. When you reach your 50's you just don't give a shit anymore.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What!? By the age of 25, I'd already gone through 4 European countries and coast to coast across the US alone.. grow a fucking spine already.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >travelling at 30
      >solo even
      shouldn't you have a wife and kids by then? Traveling years should be 16-25, MAYBE up to 27. Should be settled down with a trophy wife you picked up from a good country like europe or SEA to help the population out.

      Well.. not everyone in the planet have born privileged like both of you, self centered toxic cunts.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I've traveled more than that and I've never received a single dollar from my "privilege" or parents
        Also I have fat investment accounts and work for myself.
        Seethe and step it up buddy

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeahhh sure you were born in the most poor family from the most poor village in a third world country full of poop in one of the most financially repressed and violent nations in the planet and you're sooo special that now you are a millionaire.
          Yeah sure, excuse me insufferable cunt, I'm going to proceed to Seethe.
          lol what a cunt.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        WTF are you talking about, I paid myself for my travels across Europe and the US, you know by saving up and planning.. bet you signed up for those $1200 a month chud bucks from San Francisco though, go fuck yourself, you toxic self centered chud

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeahhh sure you were born in the most poor family from the most poor village in a third world country full of poop in one of the most financially repressed and violent nations in the planet and you're sooo special that now you are a millionaire.
          Yeah sure, excuse me insufferable cunt, I'm going to proceed to Seethe.
          lol what a cunt.

          insufferable self centered cunt lol

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I guarantee you, nobody cares in the slightest.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >How do you travel solo in your 30s without looking like a huge loser?
    Having wife and kids

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You know lots of people travel alone, be it for work, pleasure, or just as an interstitial space in-between times with others, right? I travel alone all the time and prefer it to traveling with others, I'm free to do the things I want to do and be whomever I want to be.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Pretend that you're running a vlog.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    stop being an insecure bitch. you are travelling. you are automatically winning.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's okay to travel alone.
    It's okay to go to a movie theater alone.
    It's okay to go to a restaurant alone.
    It's okay to go to a bar or night club alone.
    It's less okay to go to an amusement park alone, but it's not illegal.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You manage it by not worrying about it. Nothing makes me sicker than an insecure oldfag at a hostel. On the other hand, oldfags who are friendly, fun, and contribute to the social life of the place are great.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This strategy works if your only travel destinations are Hong Kong in TJ and Pattaya gogo bars.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 34 and I travel alone frequently. I just stay in the highest level of accommodations I can afford.
    >fly first/business
    >stay in 5-star hotels
    >rent luxury cars
    >dress decently e.g. travel-friendly button down and dark slim jeans
    If people ask what you’re doing you just say “Taking some time to clear my head” with a little air of mystery

    Nobody ever questions or judges me

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Oh they judge you. Don't worry about that. No questions though, sure

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Self-esteem will come from within. First of all, stop cringeposting. Then pick up some weights. After that, you can stop dressing like an autist and learn how to talk to people.

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous
  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Try dressing like you're not a loser. Then people will assume you're on business.

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    haha remind me of this fat fuck sexpat american guy in his 40s at the airport he was flying with this ugly ass vietnamese girl and her 70 years old mother. Dude looked so insecured and the old lady was checking on him asking if him if hes feeling alright and shit while carrying all his luggage. Dude was an absolute fucking loser, I was legit staring him down all the time and he was feeling imitated as fuck

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      *intimidated

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Aww are you jealous because you are incel and scared of girls

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I was legit staring him down all the time and he was feeling imitated as fuck
      >anon goes to airport
      >has a staring contest and imaginary fight with some person
      at least you won

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you better be a roastie because your a huge gay if your not

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I was legit staring him down all the time and he was feeling imitated as fuck
        >anon goes to airport
        >has a staring contest and imaginary fight with some person
        at least you won

        Aww are you jealous because you are incel and scared of girls

        Hello Thomas! How's your job in USA?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That was me. I remember you. You ruined my afternoon.
      I only felt better after I went home and fucked both of those related Vietnamese women so hard they pissed themselves all over me.
      By the way, you dress like a 12 year old boy. Ask a tailor for help to look like a man in public.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Hello fat manlet kun!

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Who the fuck cares if you travel solo at any age?

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    27 and I want to travel badly, but Im by myself and too nervous to do it. I can barely leave my house to go to work and after that I head straight home. I end up watching Youtube travel vlogs to live vicariously through them cause im to much of a bitch to do it myself. How do you push yourself to make that leap foreword.

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    what the fuck is wrong with you people? Just travel moron. You retards have got to be beta left wing normalfags, over socialized eurotrash, senile boomers or insecure zoomers afraid of being over 24 while also thinking they'll be 18 forever. I don't care if people judge me. In fact I HOPE THEY FUCKING DO.

    I'm fucking serious anons, giving into insecurity, conformity and letting what people say is cringe dictate your choices will end up being one of your biggest regrets. You can call it immature but ironically you'll look back and realize that shameless kid you once were was right about some things

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This. I travel alone and dress like a goober and it's fucking fantastic.

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you honestly care about what normal fags think of you unironically get the fuck off my board. I swear this website got taken over by the worst Reddit zoomers in 2016

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Take a language course or something

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >alone
    >30s
    It's over for oldcels

    LADR, cope (you are here), and rope.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I seen an oldfag traveling in his 70's! Whilst I was chilling in Saigon pre lockdown.

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    baka. like I give a fuck. It's all in your head.

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Do whatever you want man, solo travel is oftentimes more fun than a group you can meet people and do whatever you want.
    I know plenty of people who’ve done it that age. A girl I know pushing 30 just did like 3 months in Europe

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    constantly pretend to talk to someone on the phone, occasionally saying things like "yeah I'm here, where are you? I got what you asked for?" and "You made me travel all the way from [your country] just to keep me waiting? Get your ass here or I you will regret this" but in a language locals can understand

  38. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Idk doesn't seem like a problem too me, I'd be more afraid of not having enough money. Even then the dialect or not knowing a language isn't bad because 90% of countries have touristy areas where everyone speaks english anyways..

  39. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >without looking like a huge loser
    simple: just dont look like a huge loser

  40. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I dress like Jack Ryan/spy outfits and run around cities listening to movie soundtracks and talking into my airpods so people think I'm a secret agent

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    generally by early 30's most men stop giving so much of a shit about what other people think

    if I want to go do something I will do it, what other people might think about it doesn't ever factor into the decision

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Take 2 women with you. You'll regret it after a few days but wt least you won't look like a loser unless you're not sleeping with them.

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i will be traveling with my first gf. going to grope her when we bed down in the hotel room

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