Right but it doesn't fucking matter, animals with eyes are going to look at other animals moving around in their field of view. Even if someone is actually thinking "lol look at that loser" it's not like their thoughts are going to jump out of their head and hurt you.
>but it does make some other Western tourists (usually women) uneasy.
Can you explain to me what make tourists women uneasy when they see a 30+ solo traveler?
they will assume that you are there because you can't get pussy at home, or that you're a pedophile looking for specific things.
For women, those two things are equally creepy
I couldn't tell you since I'm not a woman. I would guess that single guys make some women uncomfortable. They much prefer to be in a couples only environment.
As a solo dude, I'm not going to be in couples type environments. I'm going to be in places where the local women interested in single western men are. And western tourist women don't like those spaces so I rarely see them.
After I leave the airport I usually don't see Western women again until I go back to the airport to fly home.
Occasionally I might see them, but I'll usually ignore them since I'll probably have a young 18-25 y.o. local hottie on my arm going back to my hotel room.
This is a meme. People do pay attention to each other, it's just that non-retards understand that the value of random strangers opinions is close to zero.
>travelling at 30 >solo even
shouldn't you have a wife and kids by then? Traveling years should be 16-25, MAYBE up to 27. Should be settled down with a trophy wife you picked up from a good country like europe or SEA to help the population out.
Why would you assume that?
No, I lurk most threads and live vicariously through the people who do travel. Occasionally I'll ask a question about a country.
What people think about you while traveling is not really important
What people think about you back home is the real killer. They will probably think you are a closeted fag if your a guy. I Have a brother in law that’s done some solo traveling. I’m sure he was taking it up the ass.
>How do you travel solo in your 30s without looking like a huge loser?
Step 1: Travel.
Step 2: If somebody asks how old you are, give them a number lower than 30.
This. Men in their 30s is easily the biggest demographic that travels for business. I gurantee you if you saw a guy in his 30s that is dressed even slightly above average you’d assume that. Or at least easily believe it if he told you that. Also I agree with others who cares.
100% true. I was in LA for a few weeks (not on business) but was working with one of the networks at the time, so I would just say I was in town for some meetings at [network].
It’s a one-industry town so nobody questions it, and if anybody had pushed I was genuinely working with people at the network that I could have referenced.
Travel in your 50s is the best as an American. All the local women will want to fuck you to escape their poor country. All the services will cater to you for your perceived wealth. Only other Americans you see are either much older so fat and decrepit or much younger and fat and decrepit so easy to avoid or evade. Everyone treats you like a rockstar
All the blackpill zoomers will try to argue this but it’s unironically true lmfao. Lookism retards don’t realize how poor these countries are and thag Americans are a prize overseas, runaway hypergamy to the level of america is solely a product of the good times
This is also because guys in their 50's have a much better attitude than the brooding neurotic guy in his 20's. When you reach your 50's you just don't give a shit anymore.
>travelling at 30 >solo even
shouldn't you have a wife and kids by then? Traveling years should be 16-25, MAYBE up to 27. Should be settled down with a trophy wife you picked up from a good country like europe or SEA to help the population out.
Well.. not everyone in the planet have born privileged like both of you, self centered toxic cunts.
I've traveled more than that and I've never received a single dollar from my "privilege" or parents
Also I have fat investment accounts and work for myself.
Seethe and step it up buddy
Yeahhh sure you were born in the most poor family from the most poor village in a third world country full of poop in one of the most financially repressed and violent nations in the planet and you're sooo special that now you are a millionaire.
Yeah sure, excuse me insufferable cunt, I'm going to proceed to Seethe.
lol what a cunt.
WTF are you talking about, I paid myself for my travels across Europe and the US, you know by saving up and planning.. bet you signed up for those $1200 a month chud bucks from San Francisco though, go fuck yourself, you toxic self centered chud
Yeahhh sure you were born in the most poor family from the most poor village in a third world country full of poop in one of the most financially repressed and violent nations in the planet and you're sooo special that now you are a millionaire.
Yeah sure, excuse me insufferable cunt, I'm going to proceed to Seethe.
lol what a cunt.
You know lots of people travel alone, be it for work, pleasure, or just as an interstitial space in-between times with others, right? I travel alone all the time and prefer it to traveling with others, I'm free to do the things I want to do and be whomever I want to be.
It's okay to travel alone.
It's okay to go to a movie theater alone.
It's okay to go to a restaurant alone.
It's okay to go to a bar or night club alone.
It's less okay to go to an amusement park alone, but it's not illegal.
You manage it by not worrying about it. Nothing makes me sicker than an insecure oldfag at a hostel. On the other hand, oldfags who are friendly, fun, and contribute to the social life of the place are great.
I’m 34 and I travel alone frequently. I just stay in the highest level of accommodations I can afford. >fly first/business >stay in 5-star hotels >rent luxury cars >dress decently e.g. travel-friendly button down and dark slim jeans
If people ask what you’re doing you just say “Taking some time to clear my head” with a little air of mystery
Self-esteem will come from within. First of all, stop cringeposting. Then pick up some weights. After that, you can stop dressing like an autist and learn how to talk to people.
haha remind me of this fat fuck sexpat american guy in his 40s at the airport he was flying with this ugly ass vietnamese girl and her 70 years old mother. Dude looked so insecured and the old lady was checking on him asking if him if hes feeling alright and shit while carrying all his luggage. Dude was an absolute fucking loser, I was legit staring him down all the time and he was feeling imitated as fuck
>I was legit staring him down all the time and he was feeling imitated as fuck >anon goes to airport >has a staring contest and imaginary fight with some person
at least you won
>I was legit staring him down all the time and he was feeling imitated as fuck >anon goes to airport >has a staring contest and imaginary fight with some person
at least you won
Aww are you jealous because you are incel and scared of girls
That was me. I remember you. You ruined my afternoon.
I only felt better after I went home and fucked both of those related Vietnamese women so hard they pissed themselves all over me.
By the way, you dress like a 12 year old boy. Ask a tailor for help to look like a man in public.
27 and I want to travel badly, but Im by myself and too nervous to do it. I can barely leave my house to go to work and after that I head straight home. I end up watching Youtube travel vlogs to live vicariously through them cause im to much of a bitch to do it myself. How do you push yourself to make that leap foreword.
what the fuck is wrong with you people? Just travel moron. You retards have got to be beta left wing normalfags, over socialized eurotrash, senile boomers or insecure zoomers afraid of being over 24 while also thinking they'll be 18 forever. I don't care if people judge me. In fact I HOPE THEY FUCKING DO.
I'm fucking serious anons, giving into insecurity, conformity and letting what people say is cringe dictate your choices will end up being one of your biggest regrets. You can call it immature but ironically you'll look back and realize that shameless kid you once were was right about some things
If you honestly care about what normal fags think of you unironically get the fuck off my board. I swear this website got taken over by the worst Reddit zoomers in 2016
Do whatever you want man, solo travel is oftentimes more fun than a group you can meet people and do whatever you want.
I know plenty of people who’ve done it that age. A girl I know pushing 30 just did like 3 months in Europe
constantly pretend to talk to someone on the phone, occasionally saying things like "yeah I'm here, where are you? I got what you asked for?" and "You made me travel all the way from [your country] just to keep me waiting? Get your ass here or I you will regret this" but in a language locals can understand
Idk doesn't seem like a problem too me, I'd be more afraid of not having enough money. Even then the dialect or not knowing a language isn't bad because 90% of countries have touristy areas where everyone speaks english anyways..
It's pretty much impossible but you should have activities planned, book things you want to do, and have an objective.
>sightseeing
Is not really an objective
Going to see a certain castle and getting autistic about it is.
Why would you look like a loser for traveling solo in your 30s?
/trv/fags are self conscious morones
>sighseefags are self conscious morones
This. FFS. What losers think like that!? Self conscious, dwarf esteem little gays.
Nobody fucking cares, especially if you're somewhat social and don't look like an actual autist.
Don't do things a loser would do.
Or be a manlet and have everyone assume you're still in highschool
helps by not being a huge loser
No one is paying ANY fucking attention to you, get over yourself
Not true.
Sometimes I stare at people in public and I know I’m not the only one
Right but it doesn't fucking matter, animals with eyes are going to look at other animals moving around in their field of view. Even if someone is actually thinking "lol look at that loser" it's not like their thoughts are going to jump out of their head and hurt you.
Not entirely true. The locals won't care but it does make some other Western tourists (usually women) uneasy.
>but it does make some other Western tourists (usually women) uneasy.
Can you explain to me what make tourists women uneasy when they see a 30+ solo traveler?
they will assume that you are there because you can't get pussy at home, or that you're a pedophile looking for specific things.
For women, those two things are equally creepy
This says way more about you and how you think and how you think women think than you realise.
Creep
It was a joke anon. Please don't think that about me
I couldn't tell you since I'm not a woman. I would guess that single guys make some women uncomfortable. They much prefer to be in a couples only environment.
As a solo dude, I'm not going to be in couples type environments. I'm going to be in places where the local women interested in single western men are. And western tourist women don't like those spaces so I rarely see them.
After I leave the airport I usually don't see Western women again until I go back to the airport to fly home.
Occasionally I might see them, but I'll usually ignore them since I'll probably have a young 18-25 y.o. local hottie on my arm going back to my hotel room.
This is a meme. People do pay attention to each other, it's just that non-retards understand that the value of random strangers opinions is close to zero.
>travelling at 30
>solo even
shouldn't you have a wife and kids by then? Traveling years should be 16-25, MAYBE up to 27. Should be settled down with a trophy wife you picked up from a good country like europe or SEA to help the population out.
I havent gotten to travel once yet and I'm already 26
And yet you're the most active person on sighsee pretending you're from every country like the larper you are
Why would you assume that?
No, I lurk most threads and live vicariously through the people who do travel. Occasionally I'll ask a question about a country.
Ok boomer
that poster sounds underage if anything
>SEA
>trophy wife
If any man can get one, then she ain't a trophy, she's a participation ribbon.
What decade do you think it is old man?
Not gaf because I'm fucking 18-25 hotties overseas.
Who gives a fuck
What people think about you while traveling is not really important
What people think about you back home is the real killer. They will probably think you are a closeted fag if your a guy. I Have a brother in law that’s done some solo traveling. I’m sure he was taking it up the ass.
why are you thinking about your brother-in-law taking it up the ass there guy?
Because he acts like a fag in the best of times, and he travelled to a renowned gay destination without his wife. Pretty straightforward
Moscow?
Turkey.
you spelled warsaw wrong
poland is known for its butthurt
OP's house?
Gottem
Wear some expensive clothes and be handsome. Those are the only two things most people will judge you by.
>How do you travel solo in your 30s without looking like a huge loser?
Step 1: Travel.
Step 2: If somebody asks how old you are, give them a number lower than 30.
stay in hotel
dont talk to anyone
pretend you're there on business
This. Men in their 30s is easily the biggest demographic that travels for business. I gurantee you if you saw a guy in his 30s that is dressed even slightly above average you’d assume that. Or at least easily believe it if he told you that. Also I agree with others who cares.
100% true. I was in LA for a few weeks (not on business) but was working with one of the networks at the time, so I would just say I was in town for some meetings at [network].
It’s a one-industry town so nobody questions it, and if anybody had pushed I was genuinely working with people at the network that I could have referenced.
literally just stop caring
Travel in your 50s is the best as an American. All the local women will want to fuck you to escape their poor country. All the services will cater to you for your perceived wealth. Only other Americans you see are either much older so fat and decrepit or much younger and fat and decrepit so easy to avoid or evade. Everyone treats you like a rockstar
All the blackpill zoomers will try to argue this but it’s unironically true lmfao. Lookism retards don’t realize how poor these countries are and thag Americans are a prize overseas, runaway hypergamy to the level of america is solely a product of the good times
This is also because guys in their 50's have a much better attitude than the brooding neurotic guy in his 20's. When you reach your 50's you just don't give a shit anymore.
What!? By the age of 25, I'd already gone through 4 European countries and coast to coast across the US alone.. grow a fucking spine already.
Well.. not everyone in the planet have born privileged like both of you, self centered toxic cunts.
I've traveled more than that and I've never received a single dollar from my "privilege" or parents
Also I have fat investment accounts and work for myself.
Seethe and step it up buddy
Yeahhh sure you were born in the most poor family from the most poor village in a third world country full of poop in one of the most financially repressed and violent nations in the planet and you're sooo special that now you are a millionaire.
Yeah sure, excuse me insufferable cunt, I'm going to proceed to Seethe.
lol what a cunt.
WTF are you talking about, I paid myself for my travels across Europe and the US, you know by saving up and planning.. bet you signed up for those $1200 a month chud bucks from San Francisco though, go fuck yourself, you toxic self centered chud
insufferable self centered cunt lol
I guarantee you, nobody cares in the slightest.
>How do you travel solo in your 30s without looking like a huge loser?
Having wife and kids
You know lots of people travel alone, be it for work, pleasure, or just as an interstitial space in-between times with others, right? I travel alone all the time and prefer it to traveling with others, I'm free to do the things I want to do and be whomever I want to be.
Pretend that you're running a vlog.
stop being an insecure bitch. you are travelling. you are automatically winning.
It's okay to travel alone.
It's okay to go to a movie theater alone.
It's okay to go to a restaurant alone.
It's okay to go to a bar or night club alone.
It's less okay to go to an amusement park alone, but it's not illegal.
You manage it by not worrying about it. Nothing makes me sicker than an insecure oldfag at a hostel. On the other hand, oldfags who are friendly, fun, and contribute to the social life of the place are great.
This strategy works if your only travel destinations are Hong Kong in TJ and Pattaya gogo bars.
I’m 34 and I travel alone frequently. I just stay in the highest level of accommodations I can afford.
>fly first/business
>stay in 5-star hotels
>rent luxury cars
>dress decently e.g. travel-friendly button down and dark slim jeans
If people ask what you’re doing you just say “Taking some time to clear my head” with a little air of mystery
Nobody ever questions or judges me
Oh they judge you. Don't worry about that. No questions though, sure
Self-esteem will come from within. First of all, stop cringeposting. Then pick up some weights. After that, you can stop dressing like an autist and learn how to talk to people.
Try dressing like you're not a loser. Then people will assume you're on business.
haha remind me of this fat fuck sexpat american guy in his 40s at the airport he was flying with this ugly ass vietnamese girl and her 70 years old mother. Dude looked so insecured and the old lady was checking on him asking if him if hes feeling alright and shit while carrying all his luggage. Dude was an absolute fucking loser, I was legit staring him down all the time and he was feeling imitated as fuck
*intimidated
Aww are you jealous because you are incel and scared of girls
>I was legit staring him down all the time and he was feeling imitated as fuck
>anon goes to airport
>has a staring contest and imaginary fight with some person
at least you won
you better be a roastie because your a huge gay if your not
Hello Thomas! How's your job in USA?
That was me. I remember you. You ruined my afternoon.
I only felt better after I went home and fucked both of those related Vietnamese women so hard they pissed themselves all over me.
By the way, you dress like a 12 year old boy. Ask a tailor for help to look like a man in public.
Hello fat manlet kun!
Who the fuck cares if you travel solo at any age?
27 and I want to travel badly, but Im by myself and too nervous to do it. I can barely leave my house to go to work and after that I head straight home. I end up watching Youtube travel vlogs to live vicariously through them cause im to much of a bitch to do it myself. How do you push yourself to make that leap foreword.
what the fuck is wrong with you people? Just travel moron. You retards have got to be beta left wing normalfags, over socialized eurotrash, senile boomers or insecure zoomers afraid of being over 24 while also thinking they'll be 18 forever. I don't care if people judge me. In fact I HOPE THEY FUCKING DO.
I'm fucking serious anons, giving into insecurity, conformity and letting what people say is cringe dictate your choices will end up being one of your biggest regrets. You can call it immature but ironically you'll look back and realize that shameless kid you once were was right about some things
This. I travel alone and dress like a goober and it's fucking fantastic.
If you honestly care about what normal fags think of you unironically get the fuck off my board. I swear this website got taken over by the worst Reddit zoomers in 2016
Take a language course or something
>alone
>30s
It's over for oldcels
LADR, cope (you are here), and rope.
I seen an oldfag traveling in his 70's! Whilst I was chilling in Saigon pre lockdown.
baka. like I give a fuck. It's all in your head.
Do whatever you want man, solo travel is oftentimes more fun than a group you can meet people and do whatever you want.
I know plenty of people who’ve done it that age. A girl I know pushing 30 just did like 3 months in Europe
constantly pretend to talk to someone on the phone, occasionally saying things like "yeah I'm here, where are you? I got what you asked for?" and "You made me travel all the way from [your country] just to keep me waiting? Get your ass here or I you will regret this" but in a language locals can understand
Idk doesn't seem like a problem too me, I'd be more afraid of not having enough money. Even then the dialect or not knowing a language isn't bad because 90% of countries have touristy areas where everyone speaks english anyways..
>without looking like a huge loser
simple: just dont look like a huge loser
I dress like Jack Ryan/spy outfits and run around cities listening to movie soundtracks and talking into my airpods so people think I'm a secret agent
generally by early 30's most men stop giving so much of a shit about what other people think
if I want to go do something I will do it, what other people might think about it doesn't ever factor into the decision
Take 2 women with you. You'll regret it after a few days but wt least you won't look like a loser unless you're not sleeping with them.
i will be traveling with my first gf. going to grope her when we bed down in the hotel room